I have two friends I can think of who are both very rational, and don't really let their emotions overtake them. It's hard for me to be like that consistently, but it's something I admire. I love being around people who I can not only learn from, and am challenged by, but also whom I can trust w/my private issues and belief system. As you say, we're always doing one or the other, so I also enjoy mutually intellectual conversation.

I am a dedicated introvert. I literally have no friends. This can be tough when i need a ride to pick up my car from the mechanic or someone to watch my kid during the day, but it is otherwise ideal. Less people, less bullstuff! Therefore, in relation to your question, i am fully myself at all times. I do not wish to be like anyone else.

Very true. It’s often hard to spot the good ones from the bad ones.