I think it's fair to ask. But you should be ready to accept " I'm not going to answer that" as an answer.

I voted "LOL" though I lean toward the first choice. The point is that if you're having fun, who cares? My position is that the information will come out if it is needed, and if not, the point is moot.

It is very appropriate... if you plan to have sex with the person.

I am more concerned with HIV status, last tiem they were tested for HIV/STDs.

I love learning about a partner's sexual history and I love sharing mine with a partner. I put no judgements on answers, it's just interesting to know about someone.

What difference does it make?

It's not that I've had many, many partners. It's that I've had each partner many, many times.

Aaaaaaah!

A bald-faced question like that would turn me off! With some teasing & coaxing, I might quote Bette Midler: " way up in double digits", lol!

I'm both experienced, and a regular blood donor - that's all the information needed !

I don't need to know or hear about it and I am not telling either.

Unless asked I don't answer.

I'm more interested in what they have in the way for VD & STD's. Other than that , it's trivial pillow talk .

I started to date a woman who felt that she should tell me. That was our last date! I didn't care much one way or another, but the idea that she thought I had to know made me want out of the relationship immeduately!

I think it can be important. Might be relevant but also might not be. I'd rather know about recently and how many times they where married. My ex wife lied about that. Yup she's much the way men get accused of being.

I care about sexual health and avoided infected partners

To put it in a song...