Never tried it, probably not going to after reading these comments.

I can't say the site itself is to blame, but I met my abusive ex on there, so I haven't been back and don't plan to.

Got my 15-months-so-far pen pal off there! No desire to actually meet, on both our parts, mostly, but we correspond from 1 to 20 times a day...and nothing my Mom couldn't read, mostly. Have had some fun dates, too, including dinner-party- enriching anecdotes about complete dolts. Just fun!

Hate it! The most intellectually-challenged group of hags that I have ever crossed paths with are on there. No reading comprehension whatsoever.

Not in my area, women who have been on there for years, man haters I think, obviously never date anyone. Wasn't always like that. Embarrassing when most of your neighbours are there as well.

Plenty of flakes? didn't like it. I've had the best luck on OKC.