Calming, yes. Welcome, definitely.
I'm not waiting for it, though. Or leaning on it. I'll lean into it, but not on it.
Every fixer-upper needs someone to come along and say, 'yup, i can handle this' and then go to work turning a badly beaten Place into a Home. Fill in the cracks. Brighten the dull spots. Chase out the scary, empty echoes. Drive out the chill and replace it with warmth.
I love putting my love into cracks lol joking aside your right we all ideally I think or mostly would have another person who makes you both feel complete like a two-piece jigsaw