I'm at an impasse in my romantic life (like, I have none). I'm into my 30s, I live with two roommates, I'm way obese, and generally, my life is a real mess.

On the other hand, I'm lonely as hell, and have never wanted anything more than I want to settle down with a girl of my dreams. And I have proven that it can be done in the past, just not for very long periods of time.

With the dreaded Day of Pink Hearts upon us this week, what do you all think? Should I work on getting my act together first? Or should I start looking for love while I'm still young-ish?