Hmm. Similar values and interests are important. If he isn't of good character, we aren't going to get along well. My values tend to lead naturally to my political beliefs, so those need to be compatible as well. I absolutely love discussing and sharing books, and I NEED my reading time - I don't know that a non-reader could actually appreciate that. Making music together is beautiful, so I find that I'm very much attracted to musicians. Dating non-gamers seems to lead to differences of opinion regarding how we should spend our time. Non-smoker, no illicit drugs, and an active sense of humor are vital.

I used to have a physical "type" but that isn't so true any more. And finally, I want someone who is truly attracted to me - not "putting up with" my body type, OR fetishizing it.

All those things a woman would be stoned to death for if we followed the bible would be perfection to me. No pressure @sadoi