With the rise of online porn, increasingly men expect anal sex. Deal breaker.

"You first," I say. "You get fucked up the ass by a well-hung man and tell me how you like it."

That shuts them up. Blindfolding me, slapping, anal sex, rape fantasies: what the hell? Although I am an adventurous person, being terrified or injured is not on my bucket list.

I have never watched online porn because it hurts and degrades women. In my 20s, I saw two porn films. "Deep Throat" was ridiculous- as if a woman's clitoris is in her throat. "The Story of O" was such a horrifying S&M film, I walked out.

"People under 30 are having to work harder to recognize porn is not real. Sex and dating expert Annabelle Knight says:

“Individuals need to be aware that it has little or no bearing on real life sexual scenarios for the majority of people.” Similarly to other online windows into people’s lives – Facebook, Instagram, Twitter – just because internet porn plays out a certain way doesn’t mean sex is like that in reality.

"This disconnect can mean someone’s behaviour might not have the consequences they intended. Sarah says several men she has slept with thought force was the only way to get her to orgasm. It also means that elements often missing from much porn – intimacy, emotion, female pleasure – get left out of sex in real life, too."

[huffingtonpost.co.uk]