It seems finding someone who can control themselves is a mythical unicorn. When I'm committed to someone in a relationship, I don't cheat. At least I haven't yet. I've never been married for 15 years though lol. Dating someone just means they are 1 person out of possibly many that you are dating. I generally don't like that, but it's usually how it is in the beginning. I like to focus my energy and my checkbook. Being exclusive to me is just being with that one person in a committed relationship.
Monogamy is unnatural but less stressful
Would you mind elaborating?
I don't even know what that means. I'm pretty faithful to my breakfast cereal but occasionally I do get like the store brand.