I don't think it is just. Each parent should pay what they can, within reason, so that the child(ren) receive support from both. Neither parent should have to pay so much that it is a financial disaster.

Of course, this requires maturity and putting their children first....unfortunately, I think some people use their children as pawns against the other party.

Are there statistics backing up your lottery assertion? I put my whole life on hold for my ex only so he could squander his degree and refuse to keep a decent job. Currently flipping burgers and renting a room by the week. I've never filed a single document against him. The baby-lottery comments on this site don't reflect statistical data or the lives of anyone I know.

#Child Support, Sorry, Sir, it is the family court judge who determines how much child support needs to be paid. No matter what we say here, it is a moot point. Now,, if you had asked about spousal support ( alimoney) I would have been glad to offer my opinion, but child support? Ask the judge.