I think so, if you mean “the one” I still think so but it doesn’t mean it’s GOING to happen I think it takes a lot of conscious effort by oneself and potentially the other let alone circumstance. I think the one can get away too, but then again they can come back. I think by getting as intouch with ourselves as we can it can be achieved
I'm not much for 'predestination.' Things happen. Yes, if you are happy and love yourself, good things are likely to happen. If you are actively engaged in social interaction with others, better still! Just remember that successful life consists mostly of not just what happens to us, but our reactions to it!