Did you know that clitoris’ are varying distances from the vagina? If a woman’s clit is close to the vagina, she gets more stimulated during intercourse. If it’s farther away, less. This will be affected by different positions. That’s why some women ‘only get off doing it doggie style’, or missionary, etc.

I guarantee you most women do not know this is a thing. And are probably frustrated by it, yet clueless.

My point is that men are not the only ones who worry about measurements.

It totally matters.

I really thought about this. It embarrasses me to admit openly, and I also don’t like saying mean things to people I don’t know.

My last six years have brought four very different penises into my world. This first was very small. Three, maybe three and a half inches. Sex with him was good. He knew he had to rely on other kinds of stimulation. He knew how to get the job done. The second was about six. He could use the motion and the cock. So that was pretty good. The next was maybe four. He had no motion to go with his member. It’s wasnt very good at all. Actually the whole experience was rough (not in the good way) and quick. The kind where you just want to forget you wasted months dating someone, because you now were creeped out. The fourth was about seven. He was the best lover I’ve had in a very long time. But not just because he had a large penis. He knew what to do with the rest of his body too.

I’m already too far out of my comfort zone, but I’d like to also admit that if a person can’t satisfy me sexually, our relationship will not last. Part of perks to a relationship is the sex. And I like sex.

Size totally matters!!! There is such a thing as too big or too small. You find what size fits you well and work with it. 6-7 is perfect for me

I agree with those who say that every woman has an optimal-sized penis that she'll get the most feeling from. But I think that a woman's emotional connection to the guy is so important that it might override the penis size. In those cases where a woman might not reach an orgasm from the penis, I agree that the guy should step up and compensate with other techniques. Tongue, vibrator, or whatever she's into.. The guy should have the attitude that he wants to satisfy his woman, by whatever means, not just get a nut and go to sleep.

It certainly does make a difference but, as others noted, too large is a problem too! For me, a man being an attentive lover who is also passionate and caring, is far more important than size.

I still can not believe there is not one reply from woman? WTF..do they just feel shy about their answers I wonder.

I know this post isn't geared towards straight guys, but I wanted to weigh in on it because this topic hits close to the heart for me. I'm gonna throw two very personal revelations at y'all- I have major depressive disorder, and I am less than average size.

As you can imagine, hearing things like "size does matter" used to be quite hard to hear. I used to think that no one would ever love me, that every woman I got with would leave me once they found out about my size. However, I've learned some things since then.

I think that it is important to distinguish between "does size matter" from "is size everything?" Size is certainly ONE factor, but it's not the ONLY factor. You may be lacking in one area, but be blessed in many others. Most reasonable people won't pass you up if you've got 9/10 of the things they want.

Then there's the issue of priority. Size is a factor, but how much of a factor is it? That will obviously vary from person to person. Some people may prefer to be pleasured orally rather than with a penis. Some people may prioritize how you touch and kiss them. Different strokes for different folks, as it were.

Bottom line is, size does matter, but it's far from everything. And nobody has everything. So accept the flaws that you can't change, work with what you've got, and the right person will naturally gravitate towards you. Love yourself and your body. Not everyone is going to love you and your body, but the right person for you will, and honestly, does anyone else's opinion matter as much?

Sure size dpes matters to an Extent but what about if he just a good Guy who Loves you for you. Not if you have a Wide gaping Vagina or A sized tittes. he looks past that and show should you. That's what wrong with this Generation

Size matters to an extent, but turgor matters a ton (shorter but hard can be thrilling and long but semi-soft can be frustrating) as does a partner's interest and willingness regarding the lady's pleasure. A selfish clueless guy won't get me off at all, regardless of what he's packing. Give me a size typical partner who is highly turned on and reading my response, adjusting (and yes, asking is ok, for me) to escalate my pleasure ANY day! (:

Easy answer. YES, and NO. Yes, it matters, to a degree; it matters if he's extraordinarily large or embarrassingly small. For the guy who's in the range of normal, the moves are definitely more important.

If you can wear the average condom, you've nothing to worry about. If it falls off, I'm terribly sorry, but you're going to have to learn some extra tricks. If you buy the extra-large version, you're also going to have to do some extra tricks, but most women will be excited to see what they are.

Hell, let's all learn some new tricks and have fun!

Come on ladies! Ravenwolfcasey has come out and said that size does matter although details about what size being the optimum for maximum pleasure are not given. Let her and all the measuring tape challenged guys off their tenterhooks. Dropping some hints for the guys on how to be more unselfish lovers could be useful? Keep our minds open and bodies willing.

I am a guy and when in a group of couples of various races and if this hot patato is brought up many of the women says no it does not. But in a group of women they answer has been an unsounding yes it matters. I believe the question was of the physical not the emotional experience. There are many online posts that say no body shaming of women. I say the same should apply to those of lesser endowment. A man with a small Johnson knows it is, and ladies a man knows when you are faking or just being nice. There is someone for every body. Never settle on any level. Whomever you settle for is getting all they want and you will get a portion of what you want. Speaking hypothetically of about the settling part. ????

Very brave of you to come out like that, most women feel intimidated and/or become stigmatized by discussions of penis size. There have been several studies produced about penis size, and I am fortunate to be able to brag about being of above average size (93% of all men are between 4" & 6" in length, and only 4% of men are 6" or over). I'm not fully convinced of the results of the studies because I personally know of at least a dozen men who proclaim to be in the 7" or longer-range ...

Perhaps a better way to open this discussion would be to ask, "At what size does a man's penis inherently please you (where motion is no longer a factor)? I'm sure that every lady will answer differently ...

I'll try not to be vulgar here.
I guess I'm about average size, but I like to take my time with foreplay, and I've been told I'm good at oral sex.

Firstly, I am a male. Second, by asking this question an an affirmation that it does.
As I am Bi from my own experience it does matter but more so how does one treat a partner. I've had many wonderful experiences and a few guys have just wanted to please themselves!