There is overly positive, which is often about denial, and there is realistic, which is about acceptance. I prefer the later which is how all life works. Good luck.

We have so much to learn, the more experience we shut out the less opportunity we give ourselves. Even if it’s just understanding why people think the opposite to us.

You’ve only been here for four days! What an extraordinary statement to make...do you believe you’re that important? There is nothing positive in your statement...only negativity and an overly inflated ego!

I only block people who are seriously nasty to me personally and who cannot be reasoned with, or those who attack me unprovoked.
I’m not much on ‘positive vibes’. Positive police and positivity bullies do more damage than any negativity. In my experience.