To every 'season,' there is a purpose. I have never had sexual problems, when I had an appropriate partner...I never made a good sexual partner, otherwise. If sex isn't 'life giving,' it becomes something else for me!
When that wasn't possible, I took my 'sexual creative energy' and put it to caring for and loving all people that I encountered (it is difficult to pass that to some people, but I give it my best)! As far as physical copulation is concerned, I hope every one finds pleasure, but it is not the 'be all,' to 'end all' for great pleasure in life! It is just different!

Nothing new here as far as I'm concerned. I've been receiving pleasure in giving orgasms since my twenties - and that was during the early 1960s. To this day, I don't believe in "going in" until the woman is orgasmic, although my willie might have an exploratory foray before withdrawing.