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Do you send pics without being asked?

When you meet someone online, do you send photos of yourself before they've asked you to?

Why or why not?

By JenB_OK
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No, not really fond of selfies and tend to be camera shy.

SpikeTalon Level 7 Apr 15, 2018
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I don't like pictures of myself, so no.

Browneyedlady Level 6 Apr 16, 2018

Same here. I take horrible selfies,

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No, there are plenty of pics in my profile. If they ask for naked ones I block them.

helionoftroy Level 4 Apr 15, 2018
4

I've not had to make that decision, yet.

farmboy2017 Level 7 Apr 15, 2018
3

I don't even send them when I am asked. Nor do I like pics sent to me. I can see the pics one has here.......that's enough, and sometimes too much!

AzVixen52 Level 6 Apr 16, 2018

Should I hide my avatar from you? smile009.gif

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Yes, but only of my genitals.

Seriously, no. I'm not looking for Ms. Right, so it's not really an issue for me anyway. But even if I were looking to date, I'm not photogenic enough to think that my mug is going to succeed where my words have failed.

resserts Level 8 Apr 16, 2018

lol

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Reminds me You're so vainj

kenriley Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
3

Never thought of myself as photogenic. But if they are already a friend I will sometimes send a pic of an activity I am involved in that they might be interested to see and hear about

HeraTera Level 4 Apr 15, 2018
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No, because I’m just not that presumptuous.

AMGT Level 8 Apr 15, 2018
3

...Do you mean, ahem, pics? Absolutely not. That's just nasty. 😂

Face shots? Never occured to me to do so. I guess if someone wants to see what I look like, they can certainly ask for one, or check out my profile or whatever. But I think it would be a bit odd to send unsolicited pics, at least without some context.

DonThiebaut Level 6 Apr 15, 2018
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I send pics of Evil Spock from Star Trek S2, E4 “Mirror, Mirror” to test nerd skills. As we all know, Evil Spock is also logical, nullifying any evil connotation. Basically he’s just Spock with a cool goatee.

HoaryMarmot Level 6 Apr 16, 2018
2

Usually when they ask. And sometimes not even then. I really don't like taking pictures.

Shelton Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
2

Not usually

Donotbelieve Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
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No. Not without being asked.
Why would anyone.

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Never ever. I also never send nude ones either. I'm into your face first.

ArthurPhillips Level 6 Apr 17, 2018
1

Never. Sometimes not even when asked. I'm a bad photographer and an even worse model. Cameras make me extremely self conscious and bring out all of my bad sides.

FortyTwo Level 8 Apr 16, 2018
1

No. I typically have some photos in my profiles(s) and unless they ask specifically for others, I dont' see any need to send them more.

snytiger6 Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
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  • send pictures if it supports what I am talking about at that time.
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Spinliesel Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
1

no, I don't even have any photos of me anymore, maybe some old ones on facebook, but im so computer illiterate, I doubt id be able to get them from there to anyone else.

Byrd Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
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I prefer camming. smile002.gif

bingst Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
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Absolutely NOT. I don't like unsolicited pictures sent to ME, so why would I send them to others. On the rare occassion that I DO get asked for a pic, I will still encourage more communication betwixt them and me before sending them a picture of me. Mind you, I have "profile" pictures on nearly every site that I frequent, so everyone has a pretty good idea of what I look like.

BearsNPenn Level 6 Apr 16, 2018
1

Haven't faced that yet, but no, l wouldn't. It would seem presumptuous.

Sticks48 Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
1

No, not really but its something I ask for fairly quickly because I like to know who I'm talking to

LeighShelton Level 8 Apr 15, 2018
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I don't need to send pics, I have community accounts online, all they have do is ask to friend me and they can see all of the pictures they want.

Clare Level 7 Apr 15, 2018
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NEVER! Due to the nature of my job & the number of wierd people trolling the net, it just seemed smarter.

kozmic Level 4 Apr 18, 2018
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