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Do you send pics without being asked?

When you meet someone online, do you send photos of yourself before they've asked you to?

Why or why not?

By JenB_OK
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No, not really fond of selfies and tend to be camera shy.

SpikeTalon Level 8 Apr 15, 2018
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4

I don't like pictures of myself, so no.

Browneyedlady Level 6 Apr 16, 2018
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Same here. I take horrible selfies,

4

No, there are plenty of pics in my profile. If they ask for naked ones I block them.

helionoftroy Level 6 Apr 15, 2018
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4

I've not had to make that decision, yet.

farmboy2017 Level 7 Apr 15, 2018
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3

I don't even send them when I am asked. Nor do I like pics sent to me. I can see the pics one has here.......that's enough, and sometimes too much!

AzVixen52 Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
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Should I hide my avatar from you? smile009.gif

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Yes, but only of my genitals.

Seriously, no. I'm not looking for Ms. Right, so it's not really an issue for me anyway. But even if I were looking to date, I'm not photogenic enough to think that my mug is going to succeed where my words have failed.

resserts Level 8 Apr 16, 2018
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lol

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Reminds me You're so vainj

kenriley Level 8 Apr 16, 2018
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Never thought of myself as photogenic. But if they are already a friend I will sometimes send a pic of an activity I am involved in that they might be interested to see and hear about

HeraTera Level 7 Apr 15, 2018
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No, because I’m just not that presumptuous.

AMGT Level 8 Apr 15, 2018
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...Do you mean, ahem, pics? Absolutely not. That's just nasty. 😂

Face shots? Never occured to me to do so. I guess if someone wants to see what I look like, they can certainly ask for one, or check out my profile or whatever. But I think it would be a bit odd to send unsolicited pics, at least without some context.

DonThiebaut Level 7 Apr 15, 2018
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2

Usually when they ask. And sometimes not even then. I really don't like taking pictures.

Shelton Level 8 Apr 16, 2018
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2

Not usually

Donotbelieve Level 8 Apr 16, 2018
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No. Not without being asked.
Why would anyone.

Slappy_Longarms Level 7 Apr 17, 2018
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Never ever. I also never send nude ones either. I'm into your face first.

ArthurPhillips Level 6 Apr 17, 2018
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No. I typically have some photos in my profiles(s) and unless they ask specifically for others, I dont' see any need to send them more.

snytiger6 Level 8 Apr 16, 2018
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  • send pictures if it supports what I am talking about at that time.
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Spinliesel Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
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no, i don't even have any photos of me anymore, maybe some old ones on facebook, but im so computer illiterate, i doubt id be able to get them from there to anyone else.

Byrd Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
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I prefer camming. smile002.gif

bingst Level 7 Apr 16, 2018
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Absolutely NOT. I don't like unsolicited pictures sent to ME, so why would I send them to others. On the rare occassion that I DO get asked for a pic, I will still encourage more communication betwixt them and me before sending them a picture of me. Mind you, I have "profile" pictures on nearly every site that I frequent, so everyone has a pretty good idea of what I look like.

BearsNPenn Level 6 Apr 16, 2018
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Haven't faced that yet, but no, l wouldn't. It would seem presumptuous.

Sticks48 Level 8 Apr 16, 2018
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No, not really but its something I ask for fairly quickly because I like to know who I'm talking to

LeighShelton Level 8 Apr 15, 2018
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1

I don't need to send pics, I have community accounts online, all they have do is ask to friend me and they can see all of the pictures they want.

Clare Level 7 Apr 15, 2018
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I post them publicly in forums without a second thought, but sending them in a PM kinda seems creepy. And now that I've thought about it, I don't know why I make the distinction...maybe posting them publicly is creepy too?

JustKip Level 7 Apr 29, 2018
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NEVER! Due to the nature of my job & the number of wierd people trolling the net, it just seemed smarter.

kozmic Level 5 Apr 18, 2018
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Send?

LimitedLight Level 6 Apr 16, 2018
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