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What great parental expectations were dashed by you or your child?

When my daughter Claire was born, I began buying one place setting of this Oneida stainless silverware pattern for her. I grew up with this silverware. Over the years, I added serving spoons and forks, and a butter knife. It became a set of twelve place settings.

My plan was to give the silverware to Claire for her first apartment. Should have waited until she turned thirty! It was stolen by a horrible roommate when she was eighteen.

Mom bought over fifty teaspoons for entertaining. People drank coffee after dinner.

When I was forty, Mom gave me her Oneida stainless silverware after she decided she wanted new silverware. That's why I have extra teaspoons.

Last weekend, I visited Claire and discovered she has no teaspoons. Just big soup spoons. So, I'm giving Claire a dozen teaspoons when she visits for Mother's Day.

"From Grandma Miller to me to you," I texted Claire.

"I love that story!" Claire, 31, replied. "THANK YOU!!!"

LiterateHiker 9 Apr 26
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Had my daughter pick an oneida pattern 3 years ago, Yule and birthdays and she now has a good service for 12. She'd had bits and pieces picked up at Goodwill and walmart before so she's excited and has had dinner for friends proudly since.

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Great gesture on your part

@BudFrank

Thank you.

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I have china, my kids don't want it. I use it when they come to dinner, and they tell me I shouldn't use "the good stuff" because it might get broken. I tell them if I don't use it now they will have to clean it out of my house when I'm gone. If it gets broken I'm really OK with that.

@HippieChick58

I have my parent's fine china with a gold rim. Hand-washing only.

Also own my parent's real silver silverware that requires polishing.

I doubt my daughter wants it, too.

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