When my daughter Claire was born, I began buying one place setting of this Oneida stainless silverware pattern for her. I grew up with this silverware. Over the years, I added serving spoons and forks, and a butter knife. It became a set of twelve place settings.
My plan was to give the silverware to Claire for her first apartment. Should have waited until she turned thirty! It was stolen by a horrible roommate when she was eighteen.
Mom bought over fifty teaspoons for entertaining. People drank coffee after dinner.
When I was forty, Mom gave me her Oneida stainless silverware after she decided she wanted new silverware. That's why I have extra teaspoons.
Last weekend, I visited Claire and discovered she has no teaspoons. Just big soup spoons. So, I'm giving Claire a dozen teaspoons when she visits for Mother's Day.
"From Grandma Miller to me to you," I texted Claire.
"I love that story!" Claire, 31, replied. "THANK YOU!!!"
Great gesture on your part
Thank you.
I have china, my kids don't want it. I use it when they come to dinner, and they tell me I shouldn't use "the good stuff" because it might get broken. I tell them if I don't use it now they will have to clean it out of my house when I'm gone. If it gets broken I'm really OK with that.
I have my parent's fine china with a gold rim. Hand-washing only.
Also own my parent's real silver silverware that requires polishing.
I doubt my daughter wants it, too.