Do you think if you post a sexy picture of yourself that you're inviting the kind of people you don't want to date?
Whatever makes you happy, do it.
Being treated with respect and kindness makes me happy however most of the time that doesn't work.
a picture sends a message whatever the picture and different people interpret it differently whatever it is. I don't see a problem with it really. any picture may and probably will invite people you won't want to date. I guess I wouldn't make it too sexy in a general way unless you just want sex. there's nothing wrong with attracting people but you can't choose who you attract.
Most people who think they're sexy, really aren't.
I think I'm sexy. Are you saying that I'm not?