Yeah, after a lifetime of conditioning to reject sex, they just can't enjoy it at all. They are conditioned to feel anxiety about sex, making it hard for them to enjoy married sexual relations.
When I was young I was told, in very vague terms (because of parental embarrassment) that virginity was something to keep until you found "the right person". By the time I was about 19 I decided that could be a long damn wait, so "close enough" would do just fine.
And I care because?........they are not enjoying sex because their husbands are ignorant idiots, duuuuuhhhh.
As a man (hence, ignorant, I guess), I thought everyone would care about any part of the human race suffering needless pain and trauma from what evolution programmed as a very pleasurable function. But what do I know.
@Paul4747looking at the overall World of Women, if you never had an orgasm, which many women have not, (never mind the millions who have had a clitorectomy using barbaric "tools" ) would you spare any thought for them?
" PAIN & TRAUMA"???... Being with an ignorant partner hardly gets to that level.
Like many things, you never miss what you don't know exists, so my sympathy is most definitely NOT with those women who Chose this path.....in this culture, it IS a choice.
Why do you feel that getting your panties in a wad is necessary?