He is very rigid and controlling. He thinks it's morally repugnant to "support" religion by playing the organ. I'm alarmed by all of this.

@Organist1 And he's a friend? Seems very one sided to me. Sorry, just venting. A couple that have been very close for over 10 years have, with the virus, showed their true colors and it feels like a divorce. I want nothing to do with them and wonder why I didn't see the little warning signs all along. I know this pandemic has broken up families and friends.

@JackPedigo Unfortunately, friendships last until one goes past the line the other will not go. Most of the time in normal settings the lines can get foggy as they have little actual substance. Once the substance of a person is known then the truth of that person comes out. I learned a long time ago that if someone wants to control me, then we are done. If someone wants to dictate to me the rules I will live by, then we are done. There are many people out there that we could be casual friends with, but that does not mean we could survive a week on an island without food or water and only out wits to help us survive.