This is an interesting article about sex later in life. Many of the comments interested me. If you can't see the article let me know. I'll cut & paste in on here.
For a change this medium article was accessible to me. I think you get a certain number of free articles every month.
I run around with a lot of older people and most of them have made it obvious to me that they still enjoy at least the fantasy of a sex life. Young people don't seem to be able to get past their current picture of what they think is hot.
Attractive seniors sometimes have graceful appealing bodies but many also have the added attribute of interesting and appealing thoughts and conversations. Seniors who exhibit confidence and caring can be some of the sexiest people I have ever met. Milfs and Gilfs did not enter into our everyday lexicon without a reason. For some reason I haven't heard any acronyms for the guys though.
There was an article on senior fitness that followed. I really enjoyed it because my decision to never use my hands to stand up from a seated position was heartedly endorsed by the writer.
Did you intend to share some links with your response?
@FrayedBear sorry no, the senior fitness article just came right after the one on senior sex.
@Lorajay That is as helpful as telling a thirsty person that the next well is 30 miles away when his horse has just died through lack of water.
Note that like your response mine gives no direction or hint as to where the satiating well is.
I'm being polite because I suspect my bsl is low - I'm not a mind reader.
@FrayedBear most people know me well enough that they immediately understood that I would have helped if I could.
@Lorajay I affirm your statement.
I know lots of women around my age, and NOT ONE of them has any interest in sex. There seems to be a sexual subculture, and members of that subculture are the subjects of this article.
I'm having a lot of sex. What l need is someone to share it with.
Me too, buddy. Me too.
This is a topic which is near and dear to me, and deeply relevant, as I navigate the dating world in my late 60s. I will say that I'm finding that sex is much better now than it was 40 years or so ago.
I'm not sure if I should respond "lucky you" or simply commiserate with your youthful disappointment!