By Matt Fuch, Time Magazine, November 11, 2021.
When it comes to strategies for slowing down the aging process, exercise and nutrition are the usual suspects—but don’t ignore the power of mind over matter.
Recent research shows that several personality traits predict who will enjoy health into their 80s and beyond. According to some studies, the link between personality and longevity is as strong as intelligence or how much money you have, both of which are correlated with longer lifespans.
1. Conscientiousness.
People who are conscientious—organized and responsible—tend to live longer. “It’s probably the best silver bullet we can hope for,” said Nicholas Turiano, a psychology professor at West Virginia University. Being conscientious is a “resilience factor” that may help some individuals overcome major risks to health, such as living in poverty, said Turiano.
Many conscientious people are diligent about exercise and nutrition. They also seem to have better coping strategies for stressful situations, said Turiano, leading to less inflammation, which in turn slows down aging.
2. Purpose.
Another good quality for longevity is being purposeful, or having a direction in life with clear goals that energize you.Those who say that they have a life purpose recover faster from aggravations such as viewing pictures of pollution and other disturbing scenes. They also tend to have more brain volume in an area of the brain that’s linked to self-awareness and decision-making.
3. Optimism.
For a long, healthy life, look for the silver lining. Optimism is associated with exceptional longevity, according to research by Lewina Lee, a psychologist at Boston University. That might include viewing older age as desirable. “I would think that optimistic people tend to feel more confident about their ability to accomplish goals as they age,” said Lee.
4. Outgoing.
Being extraverted, or outgoing, is another trait that can lengthen your span of health. “The link between social relationships and longevity is as strong as cholesterol levels or smoking,” said Susan Charles, a psychology professor at the University of California-Irvine. “It’s a huge effect.”
Social butterflies tend to be more active, said Charles, which protects their health. Just don’t be overly agreeable. If you’re open to other people’s bad habits, you might be swayed by friends who drink, smoke or eat unhealthily.
5. Even keeled.
Graceful agers tend to keep an even keel. “They’re less likely to report feeling ecstatic or so sad that nothing will cheer them up,” said Charles. That inner tranquility is easier on the heart and supports better sleep, both of which pay major longevity dividends.
Matt Fuchs sounds energetic, vibrant and sensible.
I am not particularly outgoing, I am quite fine with the social distancing prescribed by COVID and not going to an office or out in crowds. I am not particularly well organized.... but I do get stuff done. I have my purpose, they call me Grammy. I am not overly optimistic, but fairly even keeled. My mom died at age 45 from ovarian cancer and I was very happy to pass that mark. Ideally I'd like to see my grands grow up and start their adult lives. In reality, I don't want to live beyond my savings.
I should live forever
One area where I am different than the list is being an extrovert; I suspect their definition isn't binary. I am outgoing and friendly, and I get along with people, can mingle, give a speech. But I am very much an introvert, and like being with myself. I draw energy internally, and bore easily when around people who aren't interesting or bright. Sadly, that's a lot of the population....
I am:
Organized and responsible.
Have a purpose. Volunteering as a college mentor for children of immigrants.
Optimist with high energy all my life.
An extroverted person.
I have even keel. However, I feel ecstatic by the beauty of the world. We all need low level ecstasy in our lives.
With all these qualities , you will never die .