No one falls in love faster than a man needing a place to stay.
Fact or Fiction?
Both of my last two BFs wanted to move in with me. I have a house and they were living in apartments. Both fell in love quite quickly and both had been married at least three times. Against my better judgement, I loaned one $250 as he was about to be evicted from his apartment--never got it back.
Lesson learned: do not date poor men.
Yep! Fact! Especially if that place to stay is an oceanfront condo on a tropical island, in a great location convenient to everything.
My ex-boyfriend came back to the island recently without a place to stay, he sure tried to worm his way back into my life, saying NOW he knows how to be true to one woman, haha! His "love bombing" eased up once he found a place with a 6 month lease and understood that "no" means "no" with me.
Now, he's schmoozing me for rides, since he doesn't have a car. I limit the amount of time I spend with him - he's got a lot more free time than me - but I help him with rides when it's convenient for me.
When he lived with me, it sure saved him lots of money in rent which he likely spent on the women he was cheating on me with, haha. Not doing that again! I may be a slow learner, and gave him the benefit of the doubt 1000 times too many, so I'm happy to close the door on that one.