Interesting idea

@antman that should have read "family" member--not the entire family!

Almost since recorded time began, men have blamed women for inciting them to lust. Even when men had wet dreams, they blamed succubi for their ejaculations. Women were put to death as witches because men had such dreams about them.

Either she is having amorous feelings when in your house, or she thinks that you are overtly and perhaps inappropriately showing amorous actions. Either that, or there is a demon in your house--is it a succubus or an incubus?

@Gwendolyn2018 hmm….don’t think it’s me showing those actions.

@antman could be subconscious projections . . . since I am not in your presence, I cannot judge the vibes that you are putting out.

@Gwendolyn2018 I tend to be flirty but not so much around this person. People see/feel what they want to sometimes though I suppose.

@antman people VERY often read into others what they want to see/feel/hear. I cannot count or remember the times that men thought I was flirting with them when I was being friendly or merely polite.

@Gwendolyn2018 I’m so worried about that at work. I’m wondering if someone is into me or if they are being friendly.

@antman I am consistently amazed how people cannot seem to interpret intent--and I am sure that women get it incorrect, as well. The last time a guy hit on me hard was just as the pandemic was winding down. I was sitting in Braum's eating ice cream when this old fart walked by, said something to me, and not being stuck up, I replied. He then sat down at my table without a "by your leave" and even though I TOLD HIM that I preferred BEING ALONE, babbled happily away, making a "date" to see me again when I said that I got ice cream about every third day.

Then, I went to Walmart and guess who showed up there?

One saving grace of wearing a mask is that fewer old farts come on to me.

I dunno why some men assume that women are interested in them just because we are polite/friendly.

@Gwendolyn2018 I think we live in hope that you are interested or that we can at least start as friends.

@antman ah. . . and yes, the "Just can't we be friends?" ploy. I have had (and have) platonic male friends, but most were other teachers. I fell for this line the first couple of times guys said it when I told them, "Not interested in dating you," but I got savvy fast. When I say, "not interested," I mean it. No, I cannot be worn down--if the chemistry is not there, it isn't there, and I have always been upfront about it.

@Gwendolyn2018 I think we like the thrill of the chase too.

@antman if so I refused to be chased. I just don't bother with men who won't take "no" for an answer. The guy at Braum's told me he would be there in three days to see me again. I told him that was fine, but I didn't go.

@Gwendolyn2018 a fine line between trying to woo someone and becoming a stalker

There’s a good chance of that

Sage lol

My vivid dreams and wishful thinking. Wonder if the demon watches me. Haha

@antman Only in your mind's eye. lol

@Betty Well, if the demon enjoys it as much as I do I shall not concern myself.

@antman Then you're all set.