Usefulness of "Thoughts and prayers"?
Does any else get bothered after a tragedy when all politicians do is offer "thoughts and prayers" to the victims? I personally find it a little condescending and hollow.
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I actually see nothing wrong with the phrase itself as long as it is not said instead of sending real help. Then again, I do not like when politicians are saying it as their statements should not be religious. There are many atheists that are mocking thoughts and prayers, but to me it is simply an equivalent of saying "my thoughts are with you", "I understand how you feel", "I hope you can get through it". It is also a figure of speech for religious and sometimes not-so-religious people, I suspect a lot of them don't really pray after saying it 
EggMcMuffin
Level 5
Oct 14, 2017
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If you entertain the idea that all thoughts have energy and you focus that energy then multiply it with the thoughts of others there is more than some credence to the idea that thoughts and prayers may significantly affect an outcome.
SamL
Level 7
Oct 8, 2017
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SamL:
I think it already has been tested. Google ot and share?
haha yeah its pretty hurtful to me personally.
JaydinLedford
Level 4
Oct 4, 2017
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Maybe you have played the game?
[thoughtsandprayersthegame.com]
NJRGrant
Level 2
Oct 4, 2017
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We’re all trying to make ourselves feel good. If “getting things done makes you feel good, that’s great. If a person telling me they will pray for me and it’s not an attempt on their part to be invasive with me, then it seems like a useful thing to do. I want the people around me to feel safe as I do. Why would I begrudge them that pleasure?
LolaJane
Level 4
Oct 4, 2017
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Feel good. Always feel good
As I have heard someone else say it, "thoughts and prayers" are the ultimate form of mental masturbation. They make you feel better, but they accomplish nothing.
JimmyOneLeg93
Level 5
Oct 4, 2017
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I think feeling better is much better than not feeling anything at all . . . I wonder what I can accomplish if I don't feel good.
I'm not saying that people shouldn't feel something - because they should. But I sometimes think feeling helpless actually helps you to better understand the toughness of the situation, and helps you to face your fears, or come up with better solutions.
It's an annoying and useless platitude, like saying Bless You when someone sneezes
ChevalMugs
Level 5
Oct 3, 2017
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I wonder how good thoughts could be annoying
I mean, it makes the person whos giving thoughts/prayers feel better so thats kind of useful, kinda like saying 'i hope things go better for you'
Sarcasm
Level 6
Oct 3, 2017
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Just let it be. You just made the other guy feel better. Doesn't it make you feel better, too - making the other guy feel better?
Well, it's possibly useful for a believer to feel good about doing something without actually doing anything but as an effective means of getting things done it's worthless
paul1967
Level 8
Oct 3, 2017
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If I don't feel good and inspired from good thoughts sincerely sent my way I'll just say, " I prefer cash! " . . . "all I need is a pint a day"
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