Being alpha is not easy in the dating world. I am not bossy or rude. In fact I am loving and accommodating. I just can’t put up with any stupidity or disrespect. I also do not believe in 2nd chances!
I'm not an alpha at all, but that being said I don't tolerate being disrespected. I treat people how I expect to be treated. If that isn't a 2 way street I'm gone. I have had to make a life rule that if someone doesn't add positively to my life they can't be in it. I get enough bullshit that I can't get rid of like at work or with family that I don't allow any extra crap in my life. Sounds harsh after I reread it but I have found that you have to draw the line somewhere so as not to get drawn into other's people's drama.
I think people change at different stages of their lives, so these over-simplifications are not always useful . some people are alpha when solo, but become beta when in a relationship dynamic that forces them to sublimate an aspect of their persona.
Sounds more like a type A personality. I want, prefer and seek out strong women. I want to be with a woman who knows what she wants and who she is and expects to be treated as such. Definetly do not enjoy those overly focused, goal obsessed, living with blinders on types who don't want to hang out, wander and smell the flowers: regardless their gender.
Raised both daughters to take no shit, question authority, not to be intimidated.
Self defense, honesty about typical human interactions, and what most guys are up to.
Alpha ? Don't know about that but I do know they don't tolerate nonsense or play the Game.
You remind me of my daughter (which is probably the best compliment I could give anyone). She is kind beyond words, helps her friends, and cares deeply about everyone. That being said, if you frak up intentionally, she's done.
I commend you for your honesty, and your strength!