It's not as uncommon as people think. It might be worthwhile creating an asexual group on here.

Most of the women in my age group aren't interested in sex. I've talked with a few of them, and the two reasons I get are [1] they don't feel attractive any more, and [2] they don't know anyone they want to be with. I understand #2, but #1 surprised me.

If you're not interested in sex, then why does the sex of a partner even matter? You just want a guy to remove tight lids on jars?

I’m asexual. I prefer the more romantic and platonic side of things to the sexual. It doesn’t interest me and doesn’t matter to me at all, honestly.

With You? Or In General?

I don't think you can. Sorry. Most men (young and old) have one thing on their minds. They're fine with all that other stuff too, but, unless they're not able to get an erection, they're interested in sex. The ones not able to get an erection (even with the aid of ED meds) are the ones you see on Investigation Discovery who are the serial killers (probably turned serial killer because they couldn't get it up.)

Has your aversion to sexual intimacy been a lifelong thing or something new? If it is new, perhaps you're going through menopause or have already and your hormones are skewed? Or perhaps you just aren't feeling particularly happy with yourself? I'm truly not trying to be mean, just offering some suggestions. If it truly is just you not wanting to be physically intimate, I don't know the answer. Seems like most people do desire sex on some level. I hope you find whatever it is you need.