You meet your ideal mate. Only thing is they have this kink...
Which one would you be most willing to indulge?
(Not all of these are the full definitions of the fetish. Some are specifically what they would expect of you while having the particular kink).
At 18 I married my high school sweetheart. A few months into the marriage he let's me know that he gets off cross dressing. Something that I should have been told BEFORE THE WEDDING! I loved him so I played along. It can be kinda fun. We are no longer together but not because of that.
I would be willing to try any of the above - BUT - variety is the spice of life and if any of these were the only way a partner could enjoy sex, then they would soon stop being an ideal date.
Not interested in any of them but, me dressed as a woman would be hilarious; I'm 6 ft 5 with a beard broad shoulders. This reminds me of the Halloween I dressed up as Pippy Long Stockings and hooked up with Count Dracula with D cups.
Sounds like Halloween on SF's Polk St.!
I've been following bdsm since the mid 90's, and there's 3 in there I didn't know existed. Dam mit girl! Licking eye balls!?!
I do a stand-up comedy part time. This bit about fetishism would be a blast.
Done
there are people who get off on their partners being terminally ill or missing limbs or want to crap on each other. I like good old vanilla sex and some nice underwear etc myself. is it a fetish being turned on by intelligence?
Intelligence is the new sexy. As they say, the brain is the biggest sex organ. (Double application of a metaphor, I know...)
maybe it is
Sapiosexual. I have a streak of it myself.
Oh My! That seems safe enough... ok, whats the hidden meaning? Yikes!
That's kind of cool. Ild be right there in the right place with my wife of course..lol. no guys here!
And here I was feeling all racy with my French Maid, Schoolgirl, & etc. outfits........
Thanks for posting?
So I thought I would be ok with pretty much anything that didn't physically hurt me or involve nasty body fluids (piss, vomit that kind of thing), It seems that I was wrong!
Can't-do the bugs, just oh my god I could not do the bugs, don't mind eating, but really don't want to get fatter and eyeballs...really licking eyeballs...I ...I don't know? Like I think I could maybe make myself lick it if they thought it was the hottest thing ever because I really enjoy giving my partner pleasure, but I have a problem flinching when I put eyeliner on sometimes. I don't think I could let them do it back. I may not be able to lick it I suppose I could try, but why and how could anyone find that hot?
The rest doesn't phase me, but the armpit thing might tickle.
I've had a relationship with an exhibitionist. I can understand it. It was exciting.
I have explored many fetishes over the years as a gay man and possess a few of my own. Big muscles, wrestling, hot, sweaty body contact are just a few, not to mention bondage and discipline. A muscle dude's arm pits are often an erogenous zone. I've read that we retain body hair under our arms as imitation pubic areas to lure sexual partners. Makes sense to me.
Feet are probably winning because I mean, as long as they're clean, it's not gross, just weird. Feeder has my vote because I want to imagine them sharing my frustration at my inability to gain weight. Armpits are just kinda "what?" and I guess that's why almost no one chose it. Furries, well, aside from the fact that there are a lot of them, people who are insecure about their appearance probably wouldn't mind having something to cover themselves with. Bugs scare most people enough even when not touching their bodies (much less their nude bodies), though I imagine entomologists might vote for it. Eye-lickers seem weird, but not harmful. However, my blink reflex is so strong that I can barely get contacts in (my record speed is an hour, my longest attempt is four hours) so I don't think I could let them lick my eyeballs if I wanted to, and perhaps others have similar problems. Flashers? Well, I kinda think there's a little of that in everyone, especially those who are confident about their bodies (so long as it's only adults getting flashed)-hence sexting, porn, etc. It would probably have more votes if it wasn't illegal. I'm honestly surprised transvestism is in second. I know trans acceptance is high (especially among atheists) and I know women can look hot in business suits and most people have probably seen that video of men dancing in high heels and like fishnets or something (I forget exactly) while their torsos are in typical male attire. I think it might have been on SNL or some other late show. I didn't vote for it because of my own personal history (plus I've been mistaken for a man before more than I care to admit).
I hate it when usually foreign "customer service" reps in boiler rooms call me "Ma'am!"
@GareBear517 I work in retail, and even when my hair (or coat) isn't covering my nametag a lot of people never bother to read it. Add to that how skinny I am (5'8" 120 lbs) and a couple other factors (primarily genetic), and people tend to make excuses related to "rocker dudes" (metalheads) which I must admit is kinda hitting the nail on the head (listen to Disturbed and Metallica frequently).