I have a lot of mixed thoughts and feelings about this. There was a show Penn and teller did, I can't remember the title, but they called bullshit on things in their show. In one, they took a boy who was a shooter game maniac to a rifle range to shoot a real weapon. He was traumatized by the whole thing and ended up crying. My point is that it is almost certainly not a cause and effect relationship between video games and violence. That having been said, I think we as a people should show some respect, if not to the murdered kids then to their parents.