Definitely felt i made the right choice
Welcome to the site. Those who have children are a hostage to fortune. That I could bring a life into this unstable world would have tethered me & as a woman I am tethered enough by culture & law. Religion & procreation shall not decide for me nor should it for you.
No surprise. Having kids not only adds more stress to your life, esp. during the younger years, along with being financially costly, hence adding more stress and less freedom to your life. I made the right choice to be childless, but in my very family-oriented local dating pool, esp. among the women in my local area, it makes me practically undateable (along with being non-religious and a non-drinker), even in my early 60s, when it (having had kids or not) really shouldn't matter. Until the last few years, I have also always been too poor as an adult to afford to support kids, so there's that too.
Posted by MacStrikerWhen being selfish is better than being selfless...
Posted by MacStriker"Shop Smart, Shop S-Mart."
Posted by MacStrikerWhen people with kids say "they are an investment!" (as if it's a positive thing), this is what comes to mind...
Posted by MacStrikerA book club that only allows ONE book, seems kinda narrow...
Posted by MacStrikerKids = Party Poopers (literally)
Posted by MacStrikerNone is better than one!
Posted by MacStrikerThose Ungrateful Crotch-Goblins!
Posted by MacStrikerI'm not saying it's right, but i understand the sentiments of the reply...
Posted by MacStriker"... it's a peaceful life..."
Posted by JGalA little late but still applies every day.
Posted by MacStrikerAll the crotch goblins giving a breather to their breeders for most of the day. SerenityNow!
Posted by UrsiMajorWell, I guess this beats a pregnancy positive.
Posted by KojaksmomIt might work!
Posted by UrsiMajorYou're welcome
Posted by MacStrikerThe struggle is real
Posted by Tejas0123456789