Thank you for asking and yes things have taken a radical turn for the best. I am honestly amazed by how much better actually.

I do not know what to say to "things will get better". In the past 4 years I had to sell everything I own, I lost my job, bought a small motor home that I had to junk because it was full of mold (not paid off either), I had to give up all my pets except one, am 7 miles from town with no-one here to help me and now my car is acting up so I guess I am just not very optimistic right now, If it weren't dire I would not have spoke up but I do appreciate the sentiments.

I do appreciate your suggestions, however I have tried ALL the agencies. Even worked for United Way when I became unable to work. The ladies working in our local 211 WERE "friends" four years ago but they felt helpless to help me and they have all disappeared too.
Never thought of the shelters for food for Owlifur though. That could help.
Yes I sure did state my needs very specifically. I had no clue my family was so narcissistic until I needed them. I have always been the one they turned to for help and looking back I should have known since they always disappeared after family gatherings. Our aunt was the one that kept the family together. She would plan gatherings (100+) people, do all the preparations, py for everything and only 3 or 4 of us ever pitched in to help with any of it even if we directly asked them. Our mother would be first in the food line and go take a nap before clean up every single time.
When my uncle died I went to help my aunt with arrangements. She died 9 days later due to internal bleeding but only 2 family members stepped up to help me with her care or any of the other stuff and my mother would call and accuse me of loving my aunt more.
I truly should have had a better support system in place but my aunt and oldest sister passed away leaving me with these sociopaths (no lie) that I kept trying to love.
Sorry I am beginning to anxious again so I will stop here but yes I have tried (unsuccessfully except for food) every single outlet including asking friends on FB to which I got criticism and judgment but NO help.

@CreativelyMe Sorry it wasn't much help.

I was always one of the people who "Did" in my family.
It was quite a shock to hear their opinions on helping others. Shocking even. It took me more than a little time to put it aside. (And I still haven't entirely because I don't understand why I can care so much about people who can be this way? Unconditional on my part I guess.).

I'm glad you have food.

Have you tried a "GoFundMe" page? It's one of the few things I can think of.

Also have you considered calling your local State Senator? Sometimes those offices can tell you where help can be found. Granted that will be tomorrow.

Also it's possible to post a "wish list" from Amazon to FB groups. I've seen this done in my "cat groups" when people were in dire straights before. And of course you can post it to your FB page.

@RavenCT Yes I tried a gofundme page but all I got from my FB attempts were prayers (Hundreds of them and not one single donation) lol I have honestly tried everything I could think of before coming here to ask strangers and I have a Bachelors in Human Services so I am pretty certain I have been thorough.
I have not tried a wish list. Do the wish lists include rent, gas cards, or car repairs? Those are my main needs right now.
I did receive a donation from this post that will get my cats needs met so that is awesome and gives me some hope but I am truly tired of even trying at this point.

@CreativelyMe Waiting for disability is rough. I used a credit card. And I imagine you've tried that too.
I'm glad you got some help on the kitty front.
And wish I could help. I am on SSDI and my own needs are barely met.

Also no Amazon only really helps with your pet needs.

@RavenCT I understand not being able to help financially but you DID help me by taking the time to listen and offer ideas. That is huge and kept my mind busy thinking of solutions. You helped far more than you know. Everyone that responded helped me feel visible and more than anything that was what I needed.

@CreativelyMe On the plus side - you know we won't be praying for you?

Yes I stated my needs specifically. I realize no-one really knows me here but I am very specific when I talk to my family especially so they cannot say they did not understand or that I did not ask. This is definitely their selfishness being exposed. Also, when I do ask for help I ask when and how it will take place. My brother actually lives in the same house (different apartment) so he has to drive right past my car in order to leave. I asked 2 times when he would get it taken care of and told him I would like it to be done before 8 am Monday the 11th because I have a doctors appointment and he said it will be but it is not.
As in this post they know I need phone service, rent money, cat food & litter and car repairs. My mother told me to join her church. My daughter did what she could. One of my sisters ignored me completely, the other one told me she could not afford to help me and then asked me to come help her.....
I need gas money. Car repairs. Rent. Household supplies (laundry soap/tp) My daughter just bought me a month of phone service and one agnostic member donated enough for me to get the cat's needs met but yes I sure did make certain I was specific.