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Ok, so I met this amazing girl and we had a brief but memorable first date, she rode her scooter to our group meeting and then she bought me a taco and we got to know each other. She had to get going and I walked her to her scooter, then she did something I was not expecting, but that I had hoped she would do. She kissed me. My heart's been doing backflips and I've been smiley all day, she asked for a second date and now my anxiety is setting in. She's super cute and 10 years younger than I am, and to complicate things ( though this is a dream come true for me) we're both trans, but i have no idea what I'm doing sexually, with cis men it's pretty straight forward, but I don't even know how my body work since the hormones, double that and I'm a feeling insecure to say the least. I know I need to hold onto the positive feelings and this is in part my brain coming down from the endorphins and my anxiety latching onto anything. Trying not to have a panic attack brought on by imposter syndrome.

PiperATX 6 Jan 30
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Yay! Happy for you. ?
The age thing will be less and less as the two of you grow older.
As for the other part, I echo several others: Be happy, be yourself, tell her what you love about her and, without belaboring the point, let her know you are feeling some insecurity, still getting to know your own body on hormones, and appreciate her open-minded patience.

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Iā€™m dating someone 11 years younger, so I hear ya on that score. How exciting that you can explore and learn together what feels good and what feels better. Maintain open and honest conversation because if your body is still getting used to the hormones, your arousal and response may change over time.
Best wishes for an amazing second date!

UUNJ Level 8 Jan 31, 2019
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Starting any new relationship is stressful. The best thing you can do is be yourself, stress to the other person that you are anxious and just need you both to take your time and communicate about anything that happens as you get to know each other. Communication is key. You will do fine.

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First of all, congrats! Secondly, don't worry. You got this. She obviously likes you and since you're both trans, she will understand what you are going through with the hormones. Maybe go slow until you are more comfortable in/with your own body. Also, as with any relationship, communication is key. Just be yourself (after all, that's who she likes!), and try not to work yourself up. You'll do great!

Kafirah Level 8 Jan 31, 2019
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I saw your same post somewhere else so look for my reply there.

Mofo1953 Level 9 Jan 31, 2019
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