@Willow_Wisp Your ex sounds crazy!

@MichelleGar1 Bulgarian INTJ that works as an MBA with about as much emotion as a Star Trek Vulcan. I was married for fifteen years with two daughters. But when the economy went south they had no use for me, other than sex apparently. I have standards and they're pretty low, but that was asking too much. I haven't found anyone sexually appealing since.

@Willow_Wisp I dated a Bulgarian once he told me that Bulgarian men hit their women, I told him to make sure he hits me so hard I don't get back up because he'll regret it! I never saw him again!

15 year's is a long time to go through that trauma! How are your daughter's? I wouldn't be interested in anyone sexually if I experienced what you did!

@MichelleGar1 They never once hit me. But when I was driving to introduce my Mother to my spouse a couple of months after getting married I felt really happy and started to cry. "What's wrong?", "Nothing is wrong, it's all going great, these are tears of joy.", "Oh hell no, I didn't marry some kind of emotional basketcase did I?"
I was pissed then and I didn't say another word for the two hours of commute left on that long drive.
I'm from a dysfunctional family, I could have taken that kind of frustration every day for the rest of my life to preserve a marriage especially with children.

@phxbillcee It certainly does!