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2008 I turned down my Ex after they divorced me, which was supposedly insulting to them.
Willow_Wisp
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May 30, 2021
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@Willow_Wisp Your ex sounds crazy!
@MichelleGar1 Bulgarian INTJ that works as an MBA with about as much emotion as a Star Trek Vulcan. I was married for fifteen years with two daughters. But when the economy went south they had no use for me, other than sex apparently. I have standards and they're pretty low, but that was asking too much. I haven't found anyone sexually appealing since.
@Willow_Wisp I dated a Bulgarian once he told me that Bulgarian men hit their women, I told him to make sure he hits me so hard I don't get back up because he'll regret it! I never saw him again!
15 year's is a long time to go through that trauma! How are your daughter's? I wouldn't be interested in anyone sexually if I experienced what you did!
@MichelleGar1 They never once hit me. But when I was driving to introduce my Mother to my spouse a couple of months after getting married I felt really happy and started to cry. "What's wrong?", "Nothing is wrong, it's all going great, these are tears of joy.", "Oh hell no, I didn't marry some kind of emotional basketcase did I?"
I was pissed then and I didn't say another word for the two hours of commute left on that long drive.
I'm from a dysfunctional family, I could have taken that kind of frustration every day for the rest of my life to preserve a marriage especially with children.
MYOB is always my answer.
Just read an article about therapy, here’s a topic frequently discussed:
“That they haven’t had sex with their partner in years and don’t know how/if they will ever have sex with their partner again. There is so much shame around sex in the US that a lot of people are scared to talk to their partner about their sexual needs. Time goes by, and suddenly they haven’t had sex in 3, 5, 10 years. It starts for a lot of people in their forties and fifties."
Killtheskyfairy
Level 9
May 30, 2021
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Seems like longer than that!
phxbillcee
Level 10
May 30, 2021
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@phxbillcee It certainly does! 
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