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73 degrees , 85 degrees , 95 degrees .
Gwendolyn2018 comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Sleep in the living room.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:
Yes I did last night ..lol
I'm on a roll today.
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 21, 2018:
He can walk behind you and carry your bags.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:
@AzVixen52 I know .. ..lol. I just get worked up...
Melania Trump's jacket was no mistake - CNNPolitics
RobLawrence comments on Jun 21, 2018:
I couldn't even begin to guess what Melania was trying to communicate by wearing this jacket. No reason I can conjure up is innocuous. Are we, the common folk, and our democratic institutions and protections being given the finger? This article of clothing was chosen with forethought and purpose,...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:
It sure seems to be the finger
First Lady of Not Giving a Shit. What a proud day for America.
Paul628 comments on Jun 21, 2018:
She's a real piece of shit. An awful sub-human.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:
You think she did that on purpose? If she did... well damn.
Road Rage by Trump Supporter
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 21, 2018:
No you were a women
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:
Sorry a woman
Good morning all, and welcome to summer.
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 21, 2018:
People fleeing their homeland has been going on for thousands of years. My understand of Roman history, is that their mistreatment of German tribes fleeing the huns led to the ultimate sack and burning of Rome. Only the best politicians and leaders can manage such a difficult task and do it in a ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:
@josephr look at who this country has become... it seems to me ..we have the super rich who do and live as they please. They control 70% of the money and are one tenth of a percent. There is a skilled class below them that holds their own financially. Maybe 10 to 15% . Doctors , lawyers, business owners , engineers and technology workers Everyone one else is living hand to mouth. Paycheck to paycheck. When we had blue collar workers and unions instead of 10 to 15 % it was 50 to 60% made a recent living. Now we are racing and fighting over the scraps. What a shitty country.
Dear Journal, Day 1524 without sex. I think I'm losing hearing in my left eye.
Melady comments on Jun 21, 2018:
That's nothing, how about ten years without sex. I think about it every minute of every day.I am so frustrated about not meeting the right one I want to be with. I am determined not just to just have sex with just anyone I want the right one. Most of the right ones are married. so I'm still hoping ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:
Wow you do have patience... what about when your spouse is sick. Do you wait till you die? Or she does? Lol
Dear Journal, Day 1524 without sex. I think I'm losing hearing in my left eye.
JessicaBeZazzle comments on Jun 21, 2018:
Lol... I needed this laugh. I'm approaching 1000. My legs and crotcheal regions go numb fairly regularly... I think my business is turning off and shutting down.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 21, 2018:
Yea 1000 is nothing
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sweetcharlotte comments on Jun 20, 2018:
For my celebration, I would donate a large amount to the charity I care most about. While I write the check, I will pour myself a glass of high quality Beaujolais and enjoy the good feeling of finally being able to help others in that way. Next, I will spend a month in an elegant health spa. Those...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 20, 2018:
There is no extra money ..lol I gave it all to the mortgage company
Richmond, Virginia school named after a Confederate general is changed to Barack Obama Elementary.
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 20, 2018:
**Jeb Stuart Sommers Jeb Stuart Sommers Wrong. So wrong on so many levels. Love you mean it but this is just plain wrong. What ties does that past president have to VA? 5 Manage Like · Reply · 1d**
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 20, 2018:
Thats from a friends FB page in Richmond VA......just guessing there is a connection, but I didnt verify it.
What are you obsessed with?
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 18, 2018:
@redcupcoffee... what are you obsessed with?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 19, 2018:
@Redcupcoffee that's funny . Lol
So, I've battled social anxiety and depression most of my life.
nutrition_nerd comments on Jun 17, 2018:
I feel you. I mean, I don't have all of that, but I sometimes feel like I should have stayed in my abusive marriage, just to not be alone. I miss intimacy. Not sex. But intimacy. Well, sex too. But mostly having someone to share time with. Someone touching me. Hugging me. Talking to me. I'm an ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 18, 2018:
No chance.. attractive smart sexual woman. Just in a bit of grief. It will pass. You got this.
Who Supports Herr Trump?
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 18, 2018:
A bunch of conservatives on this site do. Sure confuses me.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 18, 2018:
@daylily they have conservative groups on agnostic. Several of them posted white house Gov propaganda. I blocked them so I would never see it again.
This post is to greet new members to g:66.
Etellles comments on Jun 18, 2018:
Hello Everyone! Thank you for the welcome! My delights, let's see...I grew in Japan with an Ukrainian mom and Liberian father therefore food was always an interesting cross section of culture and identity for me. As an anthropologist, I believe that one's food choices and dietary habits reflect the...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 18, 2018:
Fascinating background. Must be an interesting life
What has Trump done?
rogeralyn comments on Jun 17, 2018:
#FakeNews
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 17, 2018:
Funny. ...
What has Trump done?
rogeralyn comments on Jun 17, 2018:
#FakeNews
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 17, 2018:
Yea .. this is really pathetic. Put it on fox.
When Trump says he wants "LOYALTY" he really means OBEDIENCE
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 17, 2018:
Satan's spawn on earth. The incarnation of the boogey man. A pied piper of fools. A result of an uneducated mass fearful of the future
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 17, 2018:
@thislife thanks I keep working at it.
I do believe this man is the incarnation of pure evil.
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 17, 2018:
A Duke university alumni of I am not mistaken.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 17, 2018:
@KateZilla really???
Who has/had the best singing voice of all-time? My vote goes to Whitney Houston.
webbew1 comments on Jun 17, 2018:
For rock and pop? Freddy Mercury (gifted beyond belief), Whitney Houston (she elevated the bland pop music she sang to another level) and David Bowie (the man could sing any style brilliantly).
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 17, 2018:
David the man who became a star.
Who has/had the best singing voice of all-time? My vote goes to Whitney Houston.
AmiSue comments on Jun 17, 2018:
Very subjective! My faves - Roy Orbison, Billie Holiday, Louis Armstrong, Tom Waits, Nina Simone.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 17, 2018:
Tom waits?!?!? Wait what?
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jab60 comments on Jun 17, 2018:
Take everyone on agnostics.com out for s nice dinner and drinks?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 17, 2018:
That's a good one lol
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MrPKitty comments on Jun 17, 2018:
Nothing with fire.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 17, 2018:
Mr? Mrpkitty? K no fire
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kenriley comments on Jun 16, 2018:
I would sat on my back porch and have a beer hopefully with a friend, Just be happy for yourself. So what are you going to do?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Maybe a really good wine...
If God says so....
Athena comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Agreed! I just made a post out of complete frustration over questions I've been asked repeatedly on here. They refer to Canada as a socialist country and ask about "The capitalist society of America vs the socialist society of Canada." I really wish certain people would educate themselves before...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Many Americans are brain washed ...
Warning, could be TMI.
LEPeff comments on Jun 16, 2018:
That would scare the shit out of me
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
@pepperjones I would wrap myself in cotton gauze to keep them out. Shit
Warning, could be TMI.
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Deservedly so . Shit!
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
@pepperjones darn straight .... ewwwwwww
If you could talk to someone that has passed away, who would it be and what would you say to them?
Alliegirl comments on Mar 29, 2018:
My mother. She lived with me for the last few years of her life and it was not an easy situation. I was not the nicest person at times. I would love to tell her how sorry I am, and how much I love her. ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
She knows you love her.
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Alliegirl comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Awesome. Enjoy your accomplishment. I say travel.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Yes I think so
Warning, could be TMI.
LEPeff comments on Jun 16, 2018:
That would scare the shit out of me
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
@pepperjones especially there
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Vickylyn comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Take a cruise!!!
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
@Vickylyn any reccommendations?
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StJohn comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Its a wonderful feeling: Make sure it lasts! Be warned; it is so easy when debt free and with unencumbered collateral, to borrow 'just a little bit' to get this or that. Thats what I did, and over the next twenty five years ended up owing three times the original loan. Burn that mortgage, kill the ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Point taken. I'm financially secure ..
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Ludentium comments on Jun 16, 2018:
I probably shouldn’t be telling you what to do as I’m a 26. However, I say just have fun. My personal philopsophy is that we all end up in the dirt some day (odds greater later in life), so have fun regardless of your age. Don’t be a corporate slave.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Yes .. absolutely.. that will be coming to an end in 18 months
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Untamedshrew comments on Jun 16, 2018:
I'm almost there myself. I plan to celebrate by setting off on a road trip, maybe never stopping.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Yea . Thank you. That really appeals to me but not my wife. I would like to sell the house, sell of 80% of our stuff and put the rest in storage. I would like to be a nomad for a bit....I will have to compromise ...
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Vickylyn comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Take a cruise!!!
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Thanks . I am alaska land sea cruise. ..its really hard to fathom owning my house.
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maturin1919 comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Take out a student loan.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Lol nope
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CrazyQuilter comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Travel
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Amen
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DUCHESSA comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Any way your heart tells you...yelling, screaming, sharing, laughing.... CONGRATULATIONSSSSSSSSSSS
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
Lol. Lots of wine
If you could have/ own/ possess any piece of art, what would it be?
pepperjones comments on Jun 16, 2018:
Klimt, The Kiss.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
I saw that painting. Very cool artist.
What is the wildest thing that you have ever done ?
Charlene comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Oral sex on Amtrak in front of a nun...lol?????????
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 16, 2018:
@Charlene you win!
What is the wildest thing that you have ever done ?
dkp93 comments on Jun 15, 2018:
I'm not telling, but it's amusing that Agnostic wanted to inform me that Sexual Deviants is a related group for this post.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
@dkp93 apparently. Well congrats
What is the wildest thing that you have ever done ?
Charlene comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Oral sex on Amtrak in front of a nun...lol?????????
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Ok then
What is the wildest thing that you have ever done ?
dkp93 comments on Jun 15, 2018:
I'm not telling, but it's amusing that Agnostic wanted to inform me that Sexual Deviants is a related group for this post.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Didnt tell me!!!!
Life has been absolutely insane over the past few months.
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Dear queen . Be strong!
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Be strong . Sorry
What's your superpower?
moonmaid comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Apparently it's repelling any human with a y-chromosome. And I'm really quite super at it, if i do say so myself. ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
@moonmaid ahh well um forget them that's not a chromosome thing.
What's your superpower?
moonmaid comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Apparently it's repelling any human with a y-chromosome. And I'm really quite super at it, if i do say so myself. ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
@moonmaid it's not that then. Maybe just no like minded people in farmville...
What's your superpower?
moonmaid comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Apparently it's repelling any human with a y-chromosome. And I'm really quite super at it, if i do say so myself. ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
@moonmaid and do you get argumentative? Lol
What's your superpower?
moonmaid comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Apparently it's repelling any human with a y-chromosome. And I'm really quite super at it, if i do say so myself. ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
@moonmaid I am friendly ..lol fo you do something terrible? I'm not getting it.....
Has anyone ever been so widely despised?
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 14, 2018:
Yes obama
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
@Countrywoman strangest thing ever...
What's your superpower?
moonmaid comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Apparently it's repelling any human with a y-chromosome. And I'm really quite super at it, if i do say so myself. ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Awwww
What's your superpower?
kltuckmn comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Invisibility. I can be invisible to everyone at anytime. Comes in handy sometimes.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
That's kind of funny you do have an invisible photo.
What popular song will you never get sick of?
chalupacabre comments on Jun 14, 2018:
So many classics have reaching for the volume. The Who's Join Together or Squeezebox or Pretenders' Middle of the Road.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Love squeezebox
What popular song will you never get sick of?
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 14, 2018:
One of my other favorites is Sara by Bob Dylan best lost love song ever
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
@PeterDvorak amazing song . And idiot wind when they broke up.
I have until next may to find a new place to live.
Crimson67 comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Do you have family/friends you could live with? Have you contacted your local housing authority? My daughter was living in her car for a couple months (long story) and she mentioned it to the unemployment office and they sent her to the housing authority and they helped her find a place that ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
@Crimson67 . I will trust you on that. I would be terrified for my daughter . But yes she does make her own choices...
Do You know Your Ancestry?
dani2382 comments on Jun 11, 2018:
79% West African, 16% European and the rest is East Asian & Natve American. I'm so thankful to my friend to gift this to me. Obviously, I know I'm black, but to know the specifics is pretty cool.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
I think mostly west Africans umm migrated to the usa.
I have until next may to find a new place to live.
Crimson67 comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Do you have family/friends you could live with? Have you contacted your local housing authority? My daughter was living in her car for a couple months (long story) and she mentioned it to the unemployment office and they sent her to the housing authority and they helped her find a place that ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
That's heartbreaking . Oh my
This heathen is going to be a grandparent . I never thought I would live to 50...sooo.
birdingnut comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Congratulations! Better you than me..
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Yes.. lol it isnt a choice tho!
This heathen is going to be a grandparent . I never thought I would live to 50...sooo.
sweetcharlotte comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Congratulations. It may make you feel old now, but the day will come when you will feel good about living long enough to get to know your grandchild. You may even be able to influence the child as they live on and you do not. It is like extending your own life through your grandchild. ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Thank you...I hope so too
This heathen is going to be a grandparent . I never thought I would live to 50...sooo.
Crimson67 comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Congrats!
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Thank you. You arent chubby....
What does it mean that someone has " hovered ".
sassysapiosexual comments on Jun 15, 2018:
Considering some of the stalkerish visits I receive hover seems appropriate ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Rut ro....not good
What does it mean that someone has " hovered ".
Julie808 comments on Jun 15, 2018:
I just noticed that today. If you click the asterisk by the word "hovered" it tells you that it means **someone viewed your mini-profile by moving their mouse over your photo.** When viewing "Who Viewed Me" it used to show only members who actually "visited" my profile and perhaps viewed my ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
Thanks julie!!
What's your superpower?
Minta79 comments on Jun 14, 2018:
I can also make bourbon disappear.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 15, 2018:
That's a good one
Usually a long 4 or 5 mile walk in nice weather clears my mind of what a sad state the us of cheeto ...
VAL3941 comments on Jun 14, 2018:
A couple of beers help ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 14, 2018:
@VAL3941 . Sure . I guess . What do you mean? I'm no Stephen hawking, more of a historian .
Usually a long 4 or 5 mile walk in nice weather clears my mind of what a sad state the us of cheeto ...
VAL3941 comments on Jun 14, 2018:
A couple of beers help ?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 14, 2018:
yea, my liver has its limits.
Usually a long 4 or 5 mile walk in nice weather clears my mind of what a sad state the us of cheeto ...
Spudnut comments on Jun 14, 2018:
I think my youngest daughter may have hit on a solution. Because every day, several times a day, the news lays us lower and lower ~ she's decided not to follow the news at all during the week. She watches the Sunday morning news shows and then tunes it all out for another week. It's all so ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 14, 2018:
Thanks @spudnut... I try to watch no broadcast news, but do actually read some. Commander Crazypants. well maybe that helps.
Usually a long 4 or 5 mile walk in nice weather clears my mind of what a sad state the us of cheeto ...
snytiger6 comments on Jun 14, 2018:
I've noticed my book reading ( a form of escapism) has increased by several books a week. I too go on walks, but in order to relac me they have to be out in nature, int he forests, away form any reminders of "civilization."
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 14, 2018:
well I live in subarbia, but my trail has lakes and birds and flowers. I would walk longer , but I get tored after 6 miles!. Thanks
I continue to be just amazed .
JanGarber comments on Jun 12, 2018:
Your age should not prevent you from being active in the resistance. I'm 77 and do as much as I can to express resistance.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 12, 2018:
Ideas? I'm still working...
I continue to be just amazed .
dani2382 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
I hate when people call Trump a cheeto. Because I really like cheetos. :P
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 12, 2018:
Yea . Sorry I do too. He is giving cheetos a bad name
I continue to be just amazed .
LiterateHiker comments on Jun 11, 2018:
Please volunteer to help register new voters. At 64, I will never give up. Last April with two volunteers, we registered 74 high school students to vote, during four lunch hours at Wenatchee High School. We will do it again in September. Since moving to Wenatchee, WA in 1984, I have been ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 12, 2018:
I dont feel invisible. I am reacting to the reality on the ground. I appreciate all the good things you and many others are doing. But the net effect is we are still sliding to fascism.
I continue to be just amazed .
bigpawbullets comments on Jun 11, 2018:
An active resistance? Like French partisans during WWII? Are you advocating a violent overthrow of a legally elected government?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 12, 2018:
@Varn I am concerned we lose the country to fascism. I see every sign. I don't see the Congress or senate doing their job to restrain the lawlessness.
Long term marriages
KissedbySun comments on Jun 4, 2018:
My husband asked for a divorce after 25 years. He also didn't want to deal with my chronic illness. Said he didn't sign on for that. Same thing about counseling. It was a no. In time found out he had begun a relationship with a coworker. Nothing about the divorce was easy and I basically lost ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 11, 2018:
@GinaMaria I thought all assets are split 50 50. Can you help me understand how this happens?
Hey singles, are you comfortable going to a nice restaurant or a movie/play alone?
HighSeasKat comments on Jun 10, 2018:
Because of my job I mostly watch movies on airplanes and cruise ships. I dine alone quite often and enjoy it. When I go out with my friends they're staring at their phones anyway.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 10, 2018:
That's just bad people and people who dont live in the present. Inattentiveness to someone in front of you is not polite. Imo
So for my fellow older heathens... other than love, what are the biggest challenges you are facing?
CaroleKay comments on Jun 8, 2018:
I'm fucked. I will have to work until I die. And so I will. :D
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 8, 2018:
@carolekay's. Well seems like you passion so that's good
Give me your best quote people.
chaz13 comments on Jun 7, 2018:
It's a hell of a thing, killing a man. You take away all he's got, and all he's ever gonna have.... Clint Easwood, Unforgiven.....
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 7, 2018:
Hey I said that
Is this how you do it?
moonmaid comments on Jun 7, 2018:
I'm pretty sure I've forgotten what works
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 7, 2018:
Yea . Me too
Do you care or worry or get embarrassed if your pets see you naked?
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 7, 2018:
No. Really is this a thing?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 7, 2018:
@graceylou mostly mormans I guess
So for my fellow older heathens... other than love, what are the biggest challenges you are facing?
Jlangston70 comments on Jun 6, 2018:
I've had a smoldering existential crises for awhile now. At 48, given family history and no accidents, I have 20 - 30 years left on this rock (the latter if I'm lucky). I'm trying to take better care of myself so that I can maintain a good quality of life. I decided to retire when I was about ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 7, 2018:
@Jlangston70 love the view on 221 headed to forest. How did you end up there?
Just joined the group.
Kimonogrl comments on Jun 5, 2018:
I weighed 378, had surgery also, have lost 150, however I am still 50 pounds from my goal weight. Having issues with family now that eating habits and activity levels are in check. My increased health benefits are creating distance between myself and loved ones kinda like when I distanced ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 6, 2018:
Congratulations that's amazing.
Long term marriages
KissedbySun comments on Jun 4, 2018:
My husband asked for a divorce after 25 years. He also didn't want to deal with my chronic illness. Said he didn't sign on for that. Same thing about counseling. It was a no. In time found out he had begun a relationship with a coworker. Nothing about the divorce was easy and I basically lost ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 6, 2018:
@CarolinaGirl60 I'm sorry
So for my fellow older heathens... other than love, what are the biggest challenges you are facing?
Jlangston70 comments on Jun 6, 2018:
I've had a smoldering existential crises for awhile now. At 48, given family history and no accidents, I have 20 - 30 years left on this rock (the latter if I'm lucky). I'm trying to take better care of myself so that I can maintain a good quality of life. I decided to retire when I was about ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 6, 2018:
Dude I used to live in forest va!!!!! I couldn't wait to leave. I actually loved forest but the liberty effect was too much. . Wow
So for my fellow older heathens... other than love, what are the biggest challenges you are facing?
Rugglesby comments on Jun 6, 2018:
It is certainly in my thoughts almost daily. I was out of school and home very early, but scored full time work immediately. Worked 3 jobs for a while, bought 1st house on 21st birthday, paid it off in less than 5 years, did some property development, retired for the 1st time at 30 in 1988. Have ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 6, 2018:
Thanks bud
In chronological order: A) Clicked on a profile just because I was curious.
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 6, 2018:
On the prowl
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 6, 2018:
@onlyduh whole new thing window shopping
So for my fellow older heathens... other than love, what are the biggest challenges you are facing?
jioo087 comments on Jun 6, 2018:
i have been set free as my hero "Dr. King" said. "Free at Last. Free at Last. Thank God Almighty I Am Free At Last!"
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 6, 2018:
How do you like it?
So I'm a member of a secular humanist organization called the Houston Oasis.
Matias comments on Jun 6, 2018:
What are you doing in your humanist Oasis? Sitting together, drinking beer and discussing all kinds of topics? In this case all circles where friends gather to have a good time qualify as "a secular humanist organization". We in Germany have an institution called "Stammtisch" ("regular table"): ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 6, 2018:
Hey my kind of organization!
Dating after 50
Bigwavedave comments on May 28, 2018:
You have a lot of filters. You eliminated a lot of people. I am married and 61 and not looking to date... but its not dissimilar from making friends. If i eliminated all religious, or republican or friends with health issues, i don't believe i would have any friends. My wife broke her shoulder 6 ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 5, 2018:
@MissKathleen okie dokie. .
Do you REALLY look like the pictures you put up in social media?
Bierbasstard comments on Jun 5, 2018:
I'm equally as horrid as my pictures suggest ;-)
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 5, 2018:
@Blindbird btw I saw someone walk by the other day with exactly the same ahorts... made me smile
Do you REALLY look like the pictures you put up in social media?
Petter comments on Jun 5, 2018:
OK. Here's another of me. Compare it with my profile pic and see which you prefer!!
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 5, 2018:
I'm running already
Dating after 50
Bigwavedave comments on May 28, 2018:
You have a lot of filters. You eliminated a lot of people. I am married and 61 and not looking to date... but its not dissimilar from making friends. If i eliminated all religious, or republican or friends with health issues, i don't believe i would have any friends. My wife broke her shoulder 6 ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 5, 2018:
@MissKathleen , she broke her shoulder in February. The bone mended in March, but she had surgery last week to reattach tendons and muscles. She is just at 25% of use on her left arm. I didnt intend to be mean, just to share the reality of live in the late 50, 60 and 70's . Its perfectly ok for all the super healty to self select each other, they just need to recognize that the pool of people will be much smaller. I have a social circle of about 25 friends, mostly couples all in age from 50-70. Of the 25, only two are very healthy with no medical issues, one man and one woman not married to each other. Of my 25 friends 50% plus are conservative and republican.... that is for me to manage, but we find the positive. My broken arm wife is a gfellow free thinker though. Sorry I rambled, againg isnt pretty, none of us are as attarctive as we were before. For me I have to still try to find things I like about people or I would be very lonely.
Long term marriages
KissedbySun comments on Jun 4, 2018:
My husband asked for a divorce after 25 years. He also didn't want to deal with my chronic illness. Said he didn't sign on for that. Same thing about counseling. It was a no. In time found out he had begun a relationship with a coworker. Nothing about the divorce was easy and I basically lost ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 5, 2018:
would you lose everything. Assets are split 50 50 in divorce.?
Finished sewing my mother-of-the bride dress for my daughter Claire's wedding.
Bigwavedave comments on Jun 4, 2018:
I read and sang that to my daughter and I am sure she will for hers. Congratulations.
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 5, 2018:
@LiterateHiker we still have all my daughters American girl doll collection. The rocking chair we used to feed her and the little baby rocker she used to watch cartoons. We also have every child book we read to her. She is expecting this new years eve. So maybe some new traditions will be born.
What is everyone doing either fun or productive today?
GwenC comments on Jun 3, 2018:
I've made a batch of brownies and canned some peach jam
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 4, 2018:
@GwenC I finally started activity at 3 yesterday. Did get the laundry done, towels and sheets, grocery shopping, Bill's paid lawn mowed. I never did get the walk in though...
Happily single—or not?
Wurlitzer comments on Apr 25, 2018:
I’ve been single, both happily and not for as long as anyone here id wager. At first, and I’d say about half the time overall, I’ve been able to look on the bright side and enjoy my freedom, but increasingly the unhappy aspects have been tormenting me with thoughts like “what if it’s ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 4, 2018:
@Wurlitzer I understand ...maybe a suggestion is to allot time to meeting people....maybe all your time has been spent on projects and others . Probably because its safer there. If you see some seeds out there , I believe stuff will grow.
Happily single—or not?
Wurlitzer comments on Apr 25, 2018:
I’ve been single, both happily and not for as long as anyone here id wager. At first, and I’d say about half the time overall, I’ve been able to look on the bright side and enjoy my freedom, but increasingly the unhappy aspects have been tormenting me with thoughts like “what if it’s ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 4, 2018:
@RoadGoddess ...you are so right, I have been working on it for years. I make slow progress.....I was certain decades ago, if but I believed in god, I would feel different. Thats funny. I may not figure it our, but will continue the journey. I think many people blame their spouses for their not being fulfilled. Its all inside. Thank you for writing.
Happily single—or not?
Wurlitzer comments on Apr 25, 2018:
I’ve been single, both happily and not for as long as anyone here id wager. At first, and I’d say about half the time overall, I’ve been able to look on the bright side and enjoy my freedom, but increasingly the unhappy aspects have been tormenting me with thoughts like “what if it’s ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 4, 2018:
@RoadGoddess that's actually why I am on this website. I am married but still feel lonely at times. I am trying to get to the emotional root of it. I know it's not my partners "fault". It's in my mind about a sense of fulfillment . I have to figure out what I am missing , not her issues. It's my issue.
Happily single—or not?
Wurlitzer comments on Apr 25, 2018:
I’ve been single, both happily and not for as long as anyone here id wager. At first, and I’d say about half the time overall, I’ve been able to look on the bright side and enjoy my freedom, but increasingly the unhappy aspects have been tormenting me with thoughts like “what if it’s ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 4, 2018:
@RoadGoddess that's actually why I am on this website. I am married but still feel lonely at times. I am trying to get to the emotional root of it. I know it's not my partners "fault". It's in my mind about a sense of fulfillment . I have to figure out what I am missing , not her issues. It's my issue.
Happily single—or not?
Wurlitzer comments on Apr 25, 2018:
I’ve been single, both happily and not for as long as anyone here id wager. At first, and I’d say about half the time overall, I’ve been able to look on the bright side and enjoy my freedom, but increasingly the unhappy aspects have been tormenting me with thoughts like “what if it’s ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 4, 2018:
@RoadGoddess so are you a traveling sales professional? Just curious. There are lots of ways to be lonely. I never found that marriage alone changed that. I think a lot of it is what is in us... Oh ignore that you are a cyclist and writing instructor. I misunderstood
What is everyone doing either fun or productive today?
GwenC comments on Jun 3, 2018:
I've made a batch of brownies and canned some peach jam
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 3, 2018:
Better than what I got done . Lol
Happily single—or not?
seasalttravel comments on Apr 24, 2018:
I would say it goes up and down, I was in a relationship for 6 years before I became single and I decided to travel the world. I made a list of the adventures I had and if anyone wants they can read the list below. But I did it as a single woman. I could have seen times where having a partner along ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 3, 2018:
How did you fund all that travel?
Happily single—or not?
Wurlitzer comments on Apr 25, 2018:
I’ve been single, both happily and not for as long as anyone here id wager. At first, and I’d say about half the time overall, I’ve been able to look on the bright side and enjoy my freedom, but increasingly the unhappy aspects have been tormenting me with thoughts like “what if it’s ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 3, 2018:
What are you waiting on brother?
What is everyone doing either fun or productive today?
IamNobody comments on Jun 3, 2018:
Productive.... cleaning my car to the best level of detail.... (why) does such (thing) keep me busy and happy?...no idea but it does. How about you?
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 3, 2018:
Laundry and cleaning hoping for a walk here soon.
This site's gender profile.
birdingnut comments on Jun 1, 2018:
According to the American Religious Identification Survey, men currently make up 58% of Americans who claim “no religion,” 70% of Americans who self-identify as atheist, and 75% of those who self identify as agnostic. The Pew Forum’s Religious Landscape national survey found that 86% of ...
Bigwavedave replies on Jun 3, 2018:
Maybe it relates to 0s of years of religious and Male dominance. ... thank goodness there are 30% in the us. In northern Europe the women are much self spoken, independent and not trodden upon. I like that, but thanks for the independent thinkers. One day we will be dominant in the usa. Probably not any chance in my lifetime though.

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