What is your good news and bad news?

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

The bad news is that it is so damn cold outside with more snow to come, Trump is still POTUS and I live among his supporters, I live paycheck to paycheck, I'm exercising but the weight isn't coming off, the cat chewed through the cord on my phone charger. .......I'm sorry, what was the rest of the question?

If you are into physics and had the chance to learn about the double slit experiment. And as you ...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I'm coming back to these comments later, but for now my head is starting to hurt....

Fox News Is Driving Us Toward A Constitutional Crisis | HuffPost

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

The 2018 elections can't come soon enough.

Christian Blogger: Yoga Was Designed To Cause A ‘Demonic Trance’ | HuffPost

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Should we have another conversation with atheists/agnostics about how religion is harmless and live and let live? Do you really think those who feel they have a "special knowledge of the truth", without an ounce of evidence, will leave you be to live your life as you chose? It is delusional to think there is a neutral ground. Do you really think those who have made up a fantasy, have no intention of convincing others that their fantasy is reality? We either chose to advocate for reason, or we are complicit in continuing the "group delusion". One can't improve reality until they accept reality. I heard someone say atheists don't have any better idea what happens after death than anyone else. Let's be real, there is no evidence that anything happens after we die. We are not making up some fantasy of what happens after death. There is no evidence anything happens, and anecdotal evidence is useless.

If you are into physics and had the chance to learn about the double slit experiment. And as you ...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

Evidently it is a legitimate and reproducible and verifiable experiment. I'm in a little over my head with this but it did get me thinking. In the mental health field we often talk about getting the outcomes we expect, if you think people are going to be hostile, your behaviors will lead to that happening, thus confirming your original belief.. Hence, how does the fact that one observing the physical world actually changes the physical world fit in with that? I don't know but it's fascinating. That's as far as I have gotten on that. Looking forward to others thoughts on this.

Mike Pence Promises Christians Will Get Special Protection

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

1.). Those who are use to entitlement (Christians in America) see equality as persecution. 2.). Christianity is founded on a persecution complex. 3.). Does that include special protection from the Russian investigation?

Michele Bachmann asked God for a sign about running for U.S. Senate and the Lord delivered

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

She used to seem out of the mainstream of the GOP. Now she fits right in...

12 STEP GROUPS There's been some discussion of 12-step groups here but I don't think there's been a...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I'm going to be honest, at the moment I'm too lazy to read all the comments. That being said, I've been doing AODA counseling for about ten years. I've been in the mental health field for about 30. I've seen twelve step programs help some people, and I've been a little uncomfortable with the amount of 12 step bashing on the site.

How many of you have thought of relocating due to your beliefs? I've heard about some areas being ...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I live in a small town in a rural county. I do not like it but I am not moving because my minor children are here. It is a very conservative area, but I think I make it worse because I probably stereo-type people here too much. Anyway, it is helping me in liking my own company more, and I think liking myself more.

Just curious about political affiliation.

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

For 36 years I was a proud Democrat. Now I don't know what I am. I guess I might be a Justice Democrat- a movement that backs only Democrats who pledge to not have super PACs

I'm asking this not based on one's personal beliefs, but what is most appealing? Of all the ...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I've always liked the idea of reincarnation

"The Wise speak, because they have something to say - The Fool, because they have to say SOMEthing."...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

True confidence is not walking into a room of people and feeling like you can "measure up" to anyone of them. True confidence is walking into a room full of people and not feeling a need to compare yourself to them. (Or something to that effect and I'm not sure who originally said it)

About you?

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I'm a good listener and good at holding two completely opposite views in my head at the same time. However, I'm not ambitious and I'm a slob, and in my personal life I have grown intolerant of spending time with many people.

Today's political climate

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I hear you. I've been wrapped up in it pretty heavy over the last couple of years. At times it has made me so angry and depressed, and it can be so divisive, that I have had the same thought. I just want to disengage from it all. However, it's like watching a train wreck, can't take my eyes off of it. It doesn't leave me with positive feelings about human nature.

Ground Hog Day - Why is this still a thing?

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

People like traditions. I think it gives us some consistency and familiarity in this wild roller coaster called life

Pick-up lines are so yesterday. I want to hear your best break-up lines. I’ll start: “Damn...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Let's play hide and seek. You go hide and I will count to the rest of my life.

Hey friends... I'm a level 8 now... love ya.

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

You can cross that off your bucketlist

Does this sound like love?

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Obviously not love, but if one has a need/desire for drama in their life, this is perfect. It's not for me. I got tired just reading the story.

Tell me, what is the successful recipe for a successful marriage?

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Live in seperate towns?

Groupthink, a term coined by social psychologist Irving Janis, occurs when a group makes faulty ...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

This post showed up at a good time for me. I just watched the series on Waco last night.

Let's play a game, my fellow heathens! See how many points you can rack up per the sinner sign! I ...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

There wasn't much left off that list. That being said, I only had 13, but that is due to a lack of ambition. I like how they had "bitter people" on the sign, when the whole sign reeks of bitterness.

Getting ready for the super bowl game?

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I'm keeping the "faith" that the Eagles will win. I wouldn't put my money on it though because "faith" isn't reality based. Am I the only sports fan on this site? I find it a nice diversion.

Am I too young? I keep finding the same thing when I put myself out there. "Vaccines cause autism...

Rudy1962 comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I don't have any advice on dating. However, it's interesting you get accused of being a Trump supporter for not being "a hard left liberal.". I suppose I could be classified as "a hard left liberal" and I have been accused of being a Trump supporter for complaining about the Democratic Party.. You don't like the DNC? You must be a Trump supporter. "There are only two sides and you're either with us or with them" mentality.

Have you ever been told you look like someone famous?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

There was a brief period 17 years ago when people kept saying I looked like Robin Williams. I think I had a beard then.

“It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I seized the moment by getting double points for first response!

“It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Carpe Diem

What’s a petty reason you won’t date a man/woman?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

They get a restraining order against me.

Why do some comments have a "yes" or "no" option on them before people can click that they like ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Well now I feel stupid. Had I read the administrators post on my page, it answers my above question.

I don't confuse book learning with intelligence, they go well together, are not mutually exclusive ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I also love the quality of discussion here, and the wisdom in this post. I have a Master's Degree and had been in my line of work for many years, when I was put in a position where I had to work in a factory. At the job we had to tear down the machinery and put it back together when we cleaned "the line". I have never been mechanical and felt like the stupidest person in the place, and the only one with a degree. I had a friend in college who probably would have scored in the "MENSA range" on an IQ test. However, he was the most miserable son of a bitch I knew, and his social skills were next to none. My children outsmart me everyday. There are many types of intelligence.

I just shared with a friend of 35 yr, that I am on Agnostic.com and silence...Now, I know this ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Straight lines can get boring

What is your favorite cartoon show?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Who lives in a Pineapple under the sea? That's the cartoon for me! Sponge Bob Square Pants!

I believe this is true

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

So that is why the cop's are always yawning after I yawn.

Are the Millenials right and we judge them too harshly?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I don't know, but their political views give me hope for the future, if we don't cause too much damage before then.

What ever happened to Xtians being nice, caring, and loving?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Anytime I worry about being popular I remember Donald Freaking Trump was able to get elected president.

Are atheists in general, more intelligent than religious people?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I think I'm probably smarter than over half the population, but my special skill is seeing through bullshit.

Where do you get your news from?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

The Young Turks

Naked mole rat found to defy Gompertz's mortality law.

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

It kind of looks like Trump with no hair, or whatever that thing is on his head.

How old were you when you first watched porn?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Does "Charlie's Angels" count?

The richest 1 percent now owns more of the country’s wealth than at any time in the past 50 years

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Bernie 2020

Do we really value free speech anymore?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

People have the right to free speech However, colleges and universities, and the students and the faculty, have the right to decided who comes to speak to them.

What are your views on polygamy?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I worked with a guy who had four live in partners. It seemed to work for him. That being said, there are numerous cases in which polygamy involved minors, incest and domination.

Bullies---TIME'S UP Workplace drama - Day 2 A young lady from the new hire class walked out ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Good job. We all need to learn to be kind to each other as long as we share this planet together. There is no reason to bring unnecessary pain into this world. Just living gives us enough inevitable pain.

Man Unsure If He's Persecuted Because He's A Christian Or Because He's A Massive Jerk

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Funny. Very Onion like.

Dating dealbreakers

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Having a murder charge within the last year

Seems like as safe a place as any to ask this! Many men say they like a strong woman. But, in ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I think it's best to keep it real and let the chips fall where they will. If one ends up alone, living in a dumpy apartment above a laundry mat, talking to two ungrateful cats, and spending too much time online; well so be it!

I once had a young lady condemn me on Facebook for saying that all religions are one of the biggest ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

So once you pointed out those atrocities to her did she agree with you?

THESE BOOTS WERE MADE FOR WALKING

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

The most per mile walking I did was 70 miles in 2 days. It was on the Ice Age trail in southern, WI. I hiked from the trail head to a hotel in Whitewater. I then spent the night in a hotel that had a hot tub. The next day I walked the 35 miles back to my car. The hotel clerk was confused by the fact I did not have a car. It was cool because I did not have to carry more than a day pack. I later backpacked on the Appalachian Trail for a month. I planned on going the entire way from Georgia to Maine. I hopped off the trail in Tennessee to try again with an ex girlfriend. I still regret that decision. My last name is Rudolph, and it was during the time authorities were looking for Erik Rudolph, the Unabomber. I got some looks when I told people my last name. Hiking the Appalachian Trail was more of a social event than I predicted.

Don't fall for the idea that there are two parties.

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Come on now. Democrats want a kinder and gentler oligarchy.

Is this True Love?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Sounds like an abusive persons dream partner.

Today I learned if you have lots of comments to a post, there's a "next" button. I must have struck...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I find the people here intelligent and kind and even wise. That being said, even with a high quality group, it still holds true here that if you want to get a lot of attention then piss people off. I know it worked on me, I responded. But be honest, you really didn't think that calling people hateful and uneducated might upset them a bit?

Well folks... after witnessing last evening how one of our members decide to self harm in response ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I find this site to almost always be kind and respectful. I dont believe it is possible to have a group this size and not have an occasional rude or mean comment/interaction.

What habits/behaviours that humans exhibit in public that irritates you? How do you deal with it? On...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

What the hell? Yah a guy beating off in front of you in the sauna is beyond irritating, it's illegal. I have to admit it took me off guard. The story was presented as a look into little things people do that are annoying, and then bam, it's about someone masturbating in front of people.

Get Ready to Cringe: Jehovah’s Witnesses Are Warning People Not to Masturbate – Friendly Atheist...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Sorry. I wanted to read the entire article but I have to go masturbate now.

Dear Grouchy Feminists (Not all feminists. Just the grouchy ones.) Please don't take my chivalry ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I figured this all out awhile ago. I remember times, like in traffic if I gave the right away to a man he'd always give me a nod or a wave but women often didn't acknowledge the gesture at all. Once I was fishing and I tried to ask this woman about the fishing, and she just simply didn't respond at all. It made me angry, but based on things I actually heard since those days, evidently it is because they get too much unsolicited attention by aggressive guys.... so at times they decide it's better to appear rude than chance giving someone "an in" to unwanted and awkward advances.

Transgender and Bathrooms

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I don't know but my guess is it has to do with the many sexual hangups humanity has. Boobs in public are great for trying to sell us stuff, but boobs in public to feed a child? Unacceptable. I was once at a concert and the line was so long for the women's restroom, they started using the men's. Nobody made a big deal of it.

A lot of angry and/or uneducated atheists around here...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Great. I can't wait until I'm a less angry atheist and can be condescending to other atheists. When someone starts out by saying they used to be like me, I am already put back. If you were right I'd agree, but it's you you know not me, so I must disagree.

I just found this site and now 3 hours later and I have to stop and eat some breakfast! But I know ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

Me too. Welcome

" You can't love others until you learn to love yourself ", is one of the most selfish and damaging ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

In my enthusiasm I commented before reading the other comments...Damn, I probably wouldn't of had to comment had I read them. The people on this site never cease to amaze me with their wisdom and critical thinking. I swear, I've never seen a site like this before.

" You can't love others until you learn to love yourself ", is one of the most selfish and damaging ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

Ok. What if I change it to this, "Don't go into a relationship being an unhappy person, with the expectation that now that you have a soul mate they will make you happy.". They probably will for awhile, but it won't last. Often that is when problems start between people. Or don't go into a relationship feeling broken or not "whole", with the expectation that person will fix you or "complete you". On the other side of that, don't find a broken person with the expectation that you are going to fix them. As a therapist, the above mentioned situations do keep me in business, but I could find another line of work.

I'm a free spirit although shy. I want to experience life on a broad scale. Everything I haven't ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

I like your attitude

If you haven't already seen this, you should check it out. John Oliver demonstrates how the ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

I love John Oliver

Have you ever felt depressed and singled out while single on Valentine’s Day?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

If I start to feel sad on Valentine's Day, I just take a deep breath and tell myself, "It's ok. Nobody loves you on all those other days of the year either.". That really seems to help.

Is being an atheist important?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

I think it is important. It might help some "come out of the closet", and with others it might help tear down their misguided views about atheists - that we are sociopaths and/or evil.

I have a friend. Lets call her Sally; not her real name, but I know Mary wants it kept quiet so ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

Mary, AKA Sally, needs to find a guy who wants to get married. Then tell her husband she has a third shift job but only has to work a couple of times a month.

How do you sex a fossil?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 28, 2018:

Very carefully

Have any of you tried online dating? As I'm sure a lot of you know, living in a small town in ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

"Jesus is boo"?

Greetings and salutations to all out there. I just joined up and am learning how to interact with ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

Welcome, and when you learn how to interact with this site would you let me know how?

Should an alleged sex offender remain anonymous until convicted? Confidence in UK Police is at a ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I don't know about in the UK, but here in America I think it would be impossible to keep Trump's annonymity

Just wanted to say how grateful I am that this site is available. I'm finding I spend less time ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I hear you. I finally quit my job to spend more time here.

Single, divorced, widowed...why does society place such importance on these titles? Have you ever ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

That made me laugh. Next time see how they react if you say that you killed him but got off on a technicality

Beer drinkers

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

Is Corona wheat? If not I voted wrong.

I hate when people make the statement where do atheists get their moral code from if not from ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

If one needs morals to treat people right, they are just a sociopath on a leash

Good morning everyone! So a friend of mine responded to a pastors video about a black man asking if...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

It does get old. Religious people feel free to openly express their beliefs. However, if someone says they don't believe in God, they are considered rude and aggressive. Oh yah, or a militant Atheist. People think they are open minded by saying "I accept you're an atheist, but don't go around talking about it. It will offend people.". However, if they say they will pray for us, "Well they are just trying to be nice Not trying to offend you."

Imaginary Friends

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I have an imaginary friend. She........oh never mind.

So I've made it to Level 7. No parade. No party. Not even a sandwich. It happened sometime ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

You are now a role model for us lower level lads and lasses.

I am too lazy to look at all of your posts and comments on mine... I will get to it sooner or later,...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I have the opposite problem. It is my laziness that keeps me online and not doing what needs to get done.

Do most older men prefer a younger model?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

Well I wouldn't say we have no one. We always have ourselves, always, so I've worked hard at getting along with myself. The only one we are guaranteed to be with our entire life is ourselves. That being said, I ain't proud of it, but looking back I can't deny there has always been a shallow side to my choices in relationships. Don't worry. I paid for those "sins". I have minor children now, their mother can be difficult, so my focus is on them now.

What do you give instead of thoughts and prayers?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I heard you, and it has to be scary knowing you might have MS. I hope you have some supportive people around and can keep some peace of mind. Best wishes in dealing with it.

"The things you own end up owning you" - From Fight Club A rail against capitalism and for always...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I get what you are saying. I also did take in the comments of it being a first world problem. What can really be mentally imprisoning, and cast a dark cloud over one's serenity, is getting yourself in so much debt that there is no way out of it. My ex was a spend thrift, and I remember day after day thinking of the debt we acquired and the money we owed. I would think about it first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Bankruptcy was a relief. We divorced soon after that. Other than my car, I have sworn off using credit for anything. I just live in a cheap apartment now and do not buy anything unless I can pay cash. I sleep better at night.

When did you know you had found your life partner?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

In 2020

Send in the clowns?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Life is a tragic comedy isn't it?

FOOD AS CRACK Mostly succeeding on my diet but man some foods tempt me almost as bad as some free ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

I'm an overeater. I can relate to this. Wish they didn't make food taste so good.

I had a good day yesterday. I took my old landlord to court over building issues. Now, I'm a skinny ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Ok this made me smile. Right over might.

Many have placed blame on the military! Does the soldier or the politicians who put them in harms ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Of course the soldiers are not to blame.

Archaeologists Uncover Jesus's Gulfstream Jet

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Excellent

Morality?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

http://www.psychologycharts.com/kohlberg-stages-of-moral-development.html (I agree with this. Hence, behave so you don't go to hell, is not very high on the stages of morality)

Ever just feel intensely angry and have no clue why or actual reason? Ugggg I feel ugly inside right...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Watch children. Kids just let their emotions run through them...They can be crying and hate you one minute and the next minute they are hugging you and calling you the best daddy in the world. I'm not saying we should be exactly like kids, but we lose something when we become adults and have learned to shut down, or at the very least learned to not express, our negative emotions. I'm not offering a clear cut answer but rather an observation. When we begin to learn how to "behave" that is when the neurosis starts to set in..

How chivalrous are you?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Not at all, but I play a chivalrous guy online sometimes, who happens to be thirty pounds lighter and full of muscles.

Who is to blame for the government shutdown?

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

I blame Trump's parents and Putin

"This place could be beautiful, right? You could make this place beautiful."

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

We could start by not putting narcissistic sociopaths in charge of everything

I am attending Sex We can event

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Is there one for people suffering from ED? Is it called, ok you guessed it, Sex We Can't"?

Teach the children well

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

It appears the devil is the reasonable choice here. Although I don't know if my kids need to learn about witchcraft, but who knows it might come in handy some day.

I turned a guy down for a date - busy at work and decided not to date. I was honest with him about ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Maybe he thought you became ready in that brief moment between you turning him down and him throwing out the cliche.

Frustrated

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 25, 2018:

The old "fight or flight' mechanism us humans have was useful, even necessary, when we were in a daily battle to stay alive. In dealing with modern day human interactions, it is usually harmful. I'm pretty sure over 99 percent of us have been there, wanting to calmly make our case, but that uncomfortable surge of anxiety gets in our way. The more I live the more I believe meditation and practicing mindfulness is the most helpful way to work on overcoming it.

Psychotic Break As some of you know I recently had a bad bout with my depression (don't really ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 25, 2018:

I'm glad you are feeling better.

I dislike living in a highly conservative area. It makes many aspects of my life inconvenient at ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 25, 2018:

Yes, I have that issue. Tons of Trump signs were out during the election. I'm going to barricade myself inside my apartment if he is impeached. Almost everybody around here has a rifle.

Just for fun... I recorded this this tribute 2 years ago when David Bowie died. I did guitar, bass ...

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 25, 2018:

Damn! You got some talent

At least this feller understands his faith... [baptistnews.com]

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 25, 2018:

His mistake was thinking that for the majority of his fellow evangelicals, it was really about peace and love and helping the least among us.

Because some things need to be posted. Shame to who ever Shame.

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 25, 2018:

I dream of a day they throw that putts out of the Whitehouse

Part 1 of 2 I was born into an Evangelical Christian household and got “saved” at age twelve....

Rudy1962 comments on Jan 25, 2018:

Welcome home