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Been to see loads of student nurses in clinical practice and everyone bar none is having problems with communication and anxiety. I was a student nurse (30 years ago) and I was a advanced practitioner up until a few years ago. Now I work fulltime in education and I am really shocked and surprised by the lack of resilience shown by students. These are adults, some are in their 30s or 40s but utterly fall apart at the first sign of hardship and appear totally unable to communicate with other people. What is going on? Is this just a higher education in UK thing or are we really becoming far too delicate as a species?

Amisja 8 June 8
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I feel that, to a great extent, it is caused by modern society. We oldies were able to play outside, even in the street, without supervision. Now parents have to confine their children to "keep them safe." We learned the hard way to toughen up at an early age and develop an "attitude" that now stands us in good stead. If children are overly protected, because their parents quite rightly care for them, they fail to catch mild doses of the "disease" which then innoculates them. It's not just in the nursing profession but, of course, such professions are more testing of resilience.

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This is the result of being given a trophy because everyone got one no one was to be left out. These people never experienced failure . They were always rewarded and come to believe that was how life really was.Sorry, let's hope they have the common sense to teach their children how life really works. No more trophy's for all. They go to the winner's.

I am sorry but the British education system is far more competitive than that, I assure you. These are the top 25%. Its a tough course but one would think a prerequisite for being a nurse is the ability to talk.

@Amisja I am sorry I was referring to the USA.

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I think we are living in interesting times (as the chinese curse goes) There is far more pressure than there used to be because of the instability of our government not having enough of a mandate to do anything much; plus the Brexit saga and the Atos scene ; lot of fear of not being able to cope very well with no real wage increases zero hours contracts -money fear - fear for people living in high rise flats with cladding fear for people on the streets - Fear is a real downer for us all. Yes I think this much fear would make a lot of us delicate.

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No coping mechanisms any more. Children went through the "noone must fail" education system so expect everything to be perfect all the time. As my mother still says "you'd better just get on with it - we had to".

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When I look at group if youngsters today, I get the feeling we are bringing up a bunch of wimps. why should nursing be any different ?

Well one hopes nursing...like medicine is different. The expectation is that nursing students enter a profession where they will be expected to care hollistically for others for the rest of their working lives. It can be tough, hence the huge drop out rates. I am not sure if they are any more or any less 'wimpy' than you or I. One always wants better for the next generation.

@Amisja
Whaf we want and what we get is 2 different things, unfortunately ?

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