I worked in mental health on a crisis line for nine years and taught suicide intervention workshops to crisis interventionists. Telling someone who is in such despair they feel there is no option other than death, that they are being selfish because they can't bear the pain anymore- that is not at all helpful. Essentially, the message is "you must continue to endure this pain to avoid hurting others". A suicidal person needs to feel understood and needs help finding some glimmer of hope.

1-800-273-8255. Or text 741-741. Tell a friend, a counselor, a doctor. Please talk to ANYONE.

This country can't seem to outgrow the John Wayne - Clint Eastwood syndrome. Mental health, gun control, and the idea that we know how the rest of the planet is supposed to build their societies.

you speak the truth!