Money seems to be one of the most fought over issues in a marriage, read that somewhere. A post I made in another group brought this to mind; I had made a statement “we help support our daughter, we don’t mind , we have plenty” made me think I sounded glib. We’re at a spot in our lives where we’re doing good, better financially than ever. BUT, it wasn’t so long ago we were close to being homeless. My husband was in school and I had filed for disability. Our son kept us caught up on rent and we got through it. ? Money has never meant that much to me, just a roof, food, maybe a meal out once in awhile. I give help because I’ve been helped. Rob is the same way, so it works. How are you on the future? Worried? I didn’t think this age would come this fast!