Who likes ridiculously? I often present or point out the ridiculous it breaks the tension and creates levity. I am self-confident and do not mind being the subject that catches the flack of the humor. Do not get me wrong I can get serious as a heart attack when it is required. Just would rather be light-hearted and stress relaxed as life will let me be.
I use to always show the alfa male side of me at parties.... now days we all look wimpy and funny and plump and sad and who cares...lol.