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I'm married and I am bi. My sister, who is gay, says it will be hard for me to find a girlfriend who is okay with me being married. Thoughts?

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Ginger76 4 July 3
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I would be the one helping her/us find a partner or she could find us a partner, either way, if i knew my partner was bi id certainly want a piece of that action too, But thats just me,bc ive had bi gfs bf and we would partner hunt together, such a lovely world we live in full of love.

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There is a lot of Hedonism in Denver so if you lived here you would have no problem finding partners

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Connect with the local poly community and it shouldn't be that difficult.

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Yes. Im here

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Tap tap tap....You still there, @Gibger76? I see that you have a few posts, with lots of comments and questions from others, but no interaction from you.

Still here. I am just teaching an evening college course right now. 🙂

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You might find someone.

Personally, I wouldn't want to share. Why did you marry?

Yes. I got married. My husband is okay with me having a girlfriend. I told him on our first date that I am bi.

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I used to own and run an LGBTQ Introduction Service 20 years ago. Maybe/maybe not.

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I'm confused (and probably naive). You're married. Unless you have a polyamorous arrangement with your husband I don't see how bisexuality enters into it. That just describes the possible universe of people you could engage with a relationship with a sexual component; it doesn't have anything to do with what you do after you choose one of those as your significant other.

My husband understands that I also want to be with a woman, so we do have a arrangement.

@Ginger76 Cool. From what I've read, the biggest problem in polyamory is jealousy. It seems to be hard-wired into the human psyche. If you feel like sharing, I'm curious what your experience of this is and how you manage it.

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There are plenty of poly situations out there

Granted my situation is different but the girls I connect with all know about my long term girlfriend and know that they won't be replacing her/etc

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Assuming your husband (?) is OK with this then your choice may be somewhat more limited, but if you are honest and upfront about your situation then I suspect it may not be as difficult as she thinks.

It does depend on your social network too, as it will obviously be more difficult if you are not active within the LGBQT community.

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I don't think it's impossible. It would help if she was poly, I'd think. There are lots of poly people here who would know better. We also have a poly group under "Groups."

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Having been a "third wheel" in a couple situations, I say not so . But like finding any match, it's a matter of locating just the right mix of compatibilities. X2 !

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