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A question for men: how independent should your dream girl be?

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Independent enough to not need me, strong enough to admit she wants me.

Sticks48 Level 9 July 8, 2018

Isn't it a hard formula?

@Dreamer777 l have experienced it a few times in my life.

@Sticks48 but you let them go...

@Dreamer777 Somethings just don't last, for all kinds of reasons. It doesn't mean it was bad or wrong. Circumstances change, people change.☺

@Sticks48 well, that's true

@Sticks48 well, that's true


Capable of holding a good enough job to help support a household, self reliant enough to be able to make their own way in the world without being lead around by the nose at every turn and smart enough to formulate their own thoughts and opinions about things.

I have no time in my life for clingy people who need to have others guide them and tell them what to do and what to think through every single moment of their lives. People like that just annoy the shit out of me.

webbew1 Level 7 July 6, 2018

Makes sense, thanks for your input.


Not sure what that means. A relationship is defined by both parties. If one dominates the other then you have kinda a overlord and subservient relationship. I prefer my partner to be strong willed, know what they want. If you have both people independent, do you have a relationship, which requires compromise

jab60 Level 6 July 6, 2018

It's true.. it takes two to tango but there are people who get really intimidated by their female independent partners who make them feel that they don't need them...

@Dreamer777 not me. I love strong women.


My dream girl seems to be pretty independent she won't even show up

Why do you think?

@Dreamer777 if I knew the answer to that I probably still wouldn't be looking


I don’t know how common it is, but I don’t have a dream girl or even a dream woman.

Hermit Level 7 July 6, 2018



Not at all, I want to dominate her !   LOL

VAL3941 Level 8 July 6, 2018

Really? ?

No, but it would be nice if I could ? She is to damn independent !

@VAL3941 I get what you mean: a man is a man and a woman is a woman.. right?

Right, and who cares a damn ?

@VAL3941 not judging.. just listening to different points of view...

Now I am a point of view ?

@VAL3941 to the raised question and the discussion?...yes you are ??

Thats good to know, and sharp as a nail !

@VAL3941 just joking please don't feel down about it.. ??

I'm as down as a cat at the cream bowl !


i wouldn't be interested in someone who wasn't able to stand on their own two feet. Or someone who was afraid to disagree with me or stick up for themselves in a relationship.

ezwryder Level 7 July 6, 2018

Of course this wouldn't be interesting...

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