Ladies and gentlemen... a little help (no, a lot).
Men have been bunched together as a group of insensitive sexist louts and worse, many of us deserve that label... Sexism seems to have evolved from male dominated societies... it's difficult for men to recognize sexism in all it's forms, women recognize it, as it's constant...
Unfortunately, ignorance is still prevalent in all sexes...
Don't mean to offend, but, not knowing and/or understanding (my ignorance) makes us all guilty.
We don't want to continue down this road... I know I don't.
... damn, I love women... men don't come close.
I'm trying to figure out if I meant that as a question or a discussion... you guys are smart, you'll figure it out.