They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I understand that statement think it needs to be altered some too. Beauty is in the eye of the one with common sense. Because no matter what your opinion of someone expressing negative words is just as harmful to your self as to the one they are directed at. This is because to unjustly admonish someone to boost your ego is saying that you do not have an open mind. That you refuse to learn from that individual.