I have been divorced for almost five years. I have primary custody of my sons, 11 and 12. I teach my boys to "always question- never be a 'sheep', or someone that follows blindly." Their father is a hardcore, churchgoing Christian, so we do not agree, obviously, on many points. For those of you that are in a similar circumstance, how do you keep the peace yet maintain your stance? Their dad has already accused me of "sending our children to hell". Holidays are a nightmare. Thoughts?