@RobLawrence That is the common sentiment that I hear from other women, that men don't understand what we women have to put up with from men and have had to put up with for centuries. There is truth to that, that women have been through a lot at the hands of men. I feel that, I've lived it. But I also think that we have reached a point, at least here in the USA where women and men should start speaking to each other instead of 'about' each other. I don't see where women imitating men's past bad behavior helps the situation. Both sides need to find a middle ground and come up with some rules of engagement that is equitable for both sides. There are days when I think we are going nowhere & ending up back where we all started. Sad.

@RobLawrence The latest kerfuffle with the actor Henry Cavill (Superman) was for me an eye opener. When I read what he supposedly said, about his fears that flirting could be misinterpreted as an attempt to seduce and rape, I thought he was expressing confusion about what the rules are now a days. He might not have been eloquent about it, but I understood what he was trying to say. That he's old fashioned & now he doesn't know how to act around women. Many women called him out and shamed him for it & I just didn't get it. I felt it was unfair and unproductive - if men are going to be shut down for asking questions, we're never going to get anywhere. Even I, a woman, am not sure what the rules are anymore.