I invite you to describe the "match" you want to date. Please don't focus on the physical. Think about personality, education, geographical location, age, hobbies, financial status, interests, etc etc
But most important...be reasonably objective. The perfect doesn't exist and since you probably have shortcomings also describe a realistic mate.
Maybe your "match" will read your comments and apply for the position.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I'm looking for a woman who's calm and understanding, compassionate and fun. Someone who will sit up late around a fire with a few drinks talking about philosophy, but also laugh at a silly joke.
I'm a serial saver. Been saving for retirement ever since I was 16 years old. That can throw a wrench in plans to take two large vacations every year.
I want a friend and partner in life. A trust worthy companion. Someone who will give me a nudge when I haven't been to the gym in a week and keep me grounded in reality.
Someone who will partner with me to make both of us better people.
I'm probably asking for too much.
JoshArnaldo
Level 5
July 27, 2018
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She sounds terrific. I wonder if she is here and has read your comments. Good Luck.
I think having a open mind and accepting the differences in others is what makes life interesting. For me, it's a gut thing. I've been with guys younger and older than me, of various education levels and financial statuses. If someone is willing to listen and be generous with their feelings, that's a win for me. Putting boundaries on my "match" might eliminate the perfect person.
plh2433
Level 2
July 27, 2018
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Good answer.. You seem open to try whatever attracts you whenever. I think this is a good attitude.
I have said I would only date guys with a good education, then I fell in love with someone without a college degree. Your idealistic person is never going to be the same as the real person and the real person will surprise you with qualities you don't even know you love, then you can throw your ideologies out of the window
peststudio
Level 5
July 27, 2018
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The future is always fluid. Who knows how our emotions will react.
@KissedbySun beautifully said
Read my profile....and find me the male version. 
SkotlandSkye
Level 8
July 27, 2018
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This is exactly how I feel, and I know he exists.
@CaroleKay Exactly....someone will eventually read my profile and get on a plane to come see me within 24 hours of reading the profile....because, if I ever read the "right" profile...I'll be on a plane the next day if he isn't.
Maybe someone is checking your profile right now.
@KissedbySun But there are basic things like politics, work ethic, Veganism/ethics/compassion, no smoking/no drugs, education, travel, and a sense of adventure....
I don't want anyone who doesn't match me in those areas. There are some things that are deal breakers.
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