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You’re all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your girlfriend calls and asks you to change your plans to be with her instead. She doesn’t have any particular reason; she just wants to see you. She knows that you had plans to meet up with the guys, but if you really loved her, you’d come over to her place instead, right? If her request comes with an “If you really loved me,” then it’s a test. If you choose anything other than immediately rushing to her side, you’re going to fail. This kind of testing in a relationship is indeed cruel and petty.

VAL3941 8 July 28

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Deal breaker. If this ever happened in any relationship I've been in (and it has), then that would be the end (and it was).

Good for you !

@VAL3941 I don't deal with any of that manipulative bullshit. If it shows up once, it will make a repeat appearance.

I agree. Leopards don't changd their spots !


I never have understood why other women do that stuff.

Because women are women ! They just want attention. LOL


Right you are.

Thank you !

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