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Has anybody ever had chemistry with another person that was so strong you can't explain it or figure out why?

Our_existence 9 July 28
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I have. First day on the job we looked at each other during the orientation and it was instant chemistry.

....and now for the rest of the story

@Our_existance I moved to the east coast and she got into a relationship. Le sigh.

@Sydland - I am so sorry it didn't quite happen.

@Our_existance Thanks. We were in our 20s and acting like tumultuous adolescents. On and off.

@Sydland - As long as it was good while it lasted

@Our_existance It was. I miss her though.

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I've had that happened to me but it fades fast (hours or days). This may sound pretentious but in my 20s I've had on 2 separate occasions girls I tutored fall real hard for me. They thought we were meant to be together using the same words: I can't explain it or figure out why, etc..
So I took advantage of them and slept with them whenever I wanted. It was so easy.... NOT! (I felt more weird about it than flattered. These things work when it's mutual)

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yep

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Its never been unexplainable, but I can deconstruct just about any situation to understand it.

SuziQ Level 4 July 29, 2018
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Not since my 20s. But a traumatic and near fatal brain trauma @ 21 might explain that. LLOL

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Yes, lasted 8 years!

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I've always been able to explain why, and looks alone aren't enough.
With that strong chemistry is a lot of fun when it happens.

Qualia Level 8 July 28, 2018
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If it's that strong, I don't concern myself with why - I just go along with it !

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Yes, went out on a date and took her home and I never went home. Lasted over 36 years 'till she passed.

I hope that will be Lisa and I

@Our_existance I hope for you also. I sometimes think that it only happens once in a lifetime. I really can't see my putting that much energy into a relationship again.

@starwatcher-al - I never in my life have I experienced this with anyone.

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Nope. I'm a bit of a sapiosexual.

All my life, when I hear witty conversation and people laughing, I run to join in the fun.

I am attracted to intelligent, athletic men with a great sense of humor. Discovering if I am attracted takes conversation and laughter.

Even in my 20s, I never went to bars. It's not my milieu. Don't like being around predatory men or drunks.

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