9 Things To Give Up If You Want To Be Happy
Speaking to #5: sufficiently traumatized minds want to force you into the past; you have to force yourself out of it pretty much.
This is a pretty good list. Don't know if it's comprehensive or the top 9 necessarily, but it's late and it's not a bad list, so ... what the heck. I'll run with it.
1 can be a stickler. If one gives out negative information is that complaining?
Maybe #1 should just say "No negative talk." My feeling is that sometimes one has to voice a complaint to stop something that is causing unhappiness, or to correct a wrong. If one doesn't speak up, the unhappiness continues. A complaint can be handled in a positive manner. Sure, there are times when one should just suck it up and not complain, but I would not say one should never complain.
I think they need to reverse the order...when you don't need anyone's approval, all of the rest seem to fall into line naturally...thanks for sharing...love it!