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I am probably the most passionate, deep, and most complex person nobody has ever taken the time to get to know. If they did then I would have fallen in love with them because nobody has taken that interest in me before. If I showed interest in a guy its because I saw something in him worthy of my attention. My solitude is crushing. My loneliness so painful. Everyone always tries to console me by their cliche phrases, "there is always someone for everyone" and "oh you are such a wonderful guy" but it does the opposite. It is just a way to say, "I'm not interested in you"... sorry for the rant. Depression hurts. I just have to vent.

Ceaselessmind 7 Aug 13
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I would say the majority of people feel exactly the same way you do I used to think that loneliness was something that was just " gifted" to a few but after being on this site I realize what a huge lonely world it is all you can do is try to be positive and keep trying to find someone and try to enjoy your life as much as possible

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I’m sorry you’re hurting. For me, the best advice was, be the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Make a life for yourself that is full and happy without requiring a partner to fulfill you. This both makes you a more desirable partner, and someone who doesn’t feel that you NEED one if that doesn’t happen.

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