Not sure how many of you deal with your ex's, but, every time I have to, I am grateful to the 'God's' that don't exist that we are no longer married. Such an unhelpful, nasty, Trump supporting man.
My ex and we use to talk about once a month. I was a shoulder for her misadventures. But I moved to Missouri and she moved and changed her telephone number, and have not talked with her for almost 20 years. We loved each other but werre going to kill each other. A toxic relationship at best.
I know what you mean. When my ex said he was divorcing me, I went around the corner and danced a jig for joy. It was like hitting my head against the wall for 22 years, and finally stopping.
Whenever my ex called to scream, lie, and accuse, it only made me happy because I could hang up and know I wasn't married to him anymore.
Even my daughter remarked afterward, "I love Daddy, but it's so nice and peaceful now!"