My ex and we use to talk about once a month. I was a shoulder for her misadventures. But I moved to Missouri and she moved and changed her telephone number, and have not talked with her for almost 20 years. We loved each other but werre going to kill each other. A toxic relationship at best.

Understand. I took.years of abuse because men don't fight back in my generation

I sympathize, my ex is the cruelest person I have personally met. I would say that it's amazing how much a person can change, but the truth is I think I just never saw the real her till we parted. Live and learn.

I no longer deal with my ex. It is personal. Just happened. I am Okay with it. Need to know basis for the rest of the world. She don't even know it... Really nobody knows but me... and you guys, but she will find out sooner or later.

I know what you mean. When my ex said he was divorcing me, I went around the corner and danced a jig for joy. It was like hitting my head against the wall for 22 years, and finally stopping.

Whenever my ex called to scream, lie, and accuse, it only made me happy because I could hang up and know I wasn't married to him anymore.

Even my daughter remarked afterward, "I love Daddy, but it's so nice and peaceful now!"